After getting married and having children, as the children cry and the pressure of life increases, sex becomes a luxury, and many couples actually suffer from frigidity. In fact, not having time for sex is an excuse. Time is like water in a sponge. It pays to squeeze it in. The key is whether you can bring up the other person's sexual desire.

How to keep the sexual desire of both spouses "fresh"

Avoid misunderstandings during sex

In love, there are often many misunderstandings, and the most fearful thing is "If you don't ask, he won't tell." Communication is the bridge between people. Husbands and wives also need to communicate, not only to communicate feelings, but also to communicate sex. Of course, mutual dedication and mutual reciprocity in sexual life between partners are generally tacit and rarely expressed in words. But this kind of "exchange" actually does exist, and precisely because the one who made the contribution will not say it clearly, it is easier for the other party to ignore it and to unintentionally hurt the other party's heart. Don't let him act like a coolie in bed trying to please you. If you want him to stay in a certain area, you have to say so. When he meets your requirements, you should also let him know. If he doesn't do something right, don't accuse him maliciously. Express it in a gentler way and say that you prefer this or that.

Looking for free time sex

You are busy, and he is even busier. Too busy to have sex? How about sex. Try making love in every possible way to rekindle your passion. If you have ten minutes to spare, try having a quick fuck. This may sound like a ridiculous suggestion, but you won’t know how interesting it is until you try it. Sometimes, rapid intimacy is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, many couples appreciate the stimulation brought by rapid sexual intercourse, which can create the feeling of being a secret between only two of them.

Caressing affectionately

Many couples rarely touch each other affectionately. They may feel awkward about this, and touching each other regularly is the best technique to eliminate emotional and psychological barriers. Be sure to get into the habit of touching your partner, such as holding his hand while watching a movie, running your fingers up and down his upper arm while watching TV together, and giving each other a kiss from time to time. Don't constantly send "don't come near me" messages to your partner. Even if he kisses you in the morning and it smudges your freshly applied lipstick, re-applying your makeup is nothing compared to getting a signal that he has deep feelings for you. of.

Change sex location

The bed shouldn't be the only place you two have sex. When you get excited at home, but on the way to the bedroom, there will always be many things to distract you, and you will soon lose your enthusiasm. Experts point out that if you want to enjoy more and better sexual pleasure, you should act immediately when your desire is aroused. Dining rooms, carpets, sofas... can all be good places for you to enjoy yourself.

Use sex techniques

Of course, the same way of having sex is extremely boring. If you dare to try it, you will definitely get unexpected gains. These attempts can be easily obtained from relevant books, don't worry about your imagination. You can also pay attention to the official website of sex toys from time to time and pay attention to the newly launched sex toys. For example, Durex’s latest Thunderbolt Stick has an excellent sexual aid effect. It has the most powerful motor and specially enhanced rotation force, which can stimulate the clitoris and U-spot. , multiple parts of the G-spot, powerful vibrations leading to climax.

Sex on the road

Plan a itinerary with him that you have never tried before and that is the most arousing of desire, so that the two of you can have the intimacy of first acquaintance. For example, if you stay in a love hotel for a night, the sex toys and sexual aids there will definitely bring you a different sexual experience and make your passion burning.

Press four acupuncture points to effectively increase sexual desire

Shangyang point: This health-preserving point is located on the thumb side of the index finger, 2 mm directly behind the corner of the nail. It is the well point of the large intestine meridian of Hand Yangming. Often pinching this health-preserving acupoint with your fingers can invigorate the qi and blood of the large intestine meridian, regulate the function of the digestive tract, speed up the body's metabolism, improve sexual performance, and have a strong and tonic health-preserving effect on the body.

Taixi Point: This health-preserving point is located in a depression three centimeters behind the medial malleolus of the foot. Regular pressure with fingers can nourish kidney yin and regulate Chongren.

Ququan point: Appropriate massage of the acupoints on the liver meridian has the health-preserving effect of sorting out liver qi and improving sexual function. To select the acupoint, bend your knees and place it in the depression above the transverse crease on the inner side of your knee. This health-preserving acupoint mainly treats diseases such as synovial fluid and premature ejaculation.

Yingu point: It is troublesome to find this health-preserving acupoint. To select this acupoint, you should sit or lie on your back. Yingu point is located on the inner thigh of the human body, about 5 cm above the inner side of the knee joint. Frequent stimulation of this acupoint can play a health-preserving role in regulating and nourishing the liver and kidneys, clearing away heat and dampness, relaxing the meridians and activating collaterals.