Most pregnancies occur shortly after marriage, when the couple's sex is getting better, and suddenly there is a sudden stop, and the couple, especially the husband, naturally faces a test. Around us, there are many stories of wives who experienced sexual infidelity from their husbands after becoming pregnant.

The reason given by husbands is usually that they only cheated on them for sex. However, it is difficult for women to accept that in just a few months, does he need to have a relationship with another woman to fill the "sexual vacuum"?

Unsatisfied sexual needs can easily lead to men having affairs

With children, the world of two people will change. For a man, he can accommodate his wife if her appetite becomes unruly, and tolerate her temper if she becomes bad, but the loss of sex is an unbearable pain. Making love not only means sexual satisfaction for men, but also the acquisition of love.

When a man cannot satisfy his sexual needs at home, he may develop outward. Men have needs, but women are not satisfied and don't care. Over time, it will inevitably affect the relationship between husband and wife. I'm afraid that men will lose not only their sex, but also their hearts and feelings.

Zheng Yu (pseudonym) and her husband were originally a very loving couple. Ever since she became pregnant, she refused to have sex, and there had been friction between the two. For this reason, Zheng Yu proposed sleeping in a separate room. Later, she simply went back to live with her parents on the grounds of "convenience in waiting for childbirth". The husband was left aside, unable to see his wife's face, let alone receive physical comfort. He was extremely depressed and had a one-night stand. The sad thing is that Zheng Yu didn't object when she knew her husband was cheating, but she just didn't want her husband to touch her because she felt dirty. As a result, the child lost his father when he was less than one year old. The father left with the woman he had a one-night stand with.

During pregnancy, couples can also enjoy sex

Pregnancy changes a woman’s hormones and weakens her sexual needs. Men do not have this feeling and must find solutions. Once the balance is out of balance, women cannot just focus on themselves and their children and let men blindly endure the torture of sexual desire.

“You cannot have sex in the first three months and the last three months of pregnancy, but the middle four months are safe. As long as you pay attention to posture and strength, it will not only help enhance the relationship between the couple during the 'vacuum period' "It also has many benefits in relieving mothers' sexual repression and postpartum depression." Even if the husband is considerate of his wife and takes the initiative to have sex, the wife cannot completely ignore it. "Compared with a man's masturbation, his wife's caressing and handjob certainly feel better, and the two of them are more intimate."

Some couples sleep in separate rooms immediately after becoming pregnant, and physical contact is reduced or even eliminated at all. When "sex" is completely unsatisfactory, various small problems will turn into big conflicts, seriously affecting the relationship between husband and wife and their married life.

How to help your husband get rid of the "sexual vacuum" during pregnancy? Although you cannot have sex in the first three months and the last three months of pregnancy, the expression of love is indispensable. Hugging, kissing, touching, especially taking the initiative to help the husband vent his desires, actually hides the psychological suggestion of "I am pregnant, but I still pay attention to you." And husbands can respond positively to their wives. At the same time, couples need to strengthen emotional communication.

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