If you lose "accompanying you to go shopping", you also lose your happiness

"It doesn't matter if I stay up late chatting with you until you burst into tears, or it doesn't matter if you become flat-footed when I go shopping with you" - Mayday's "Love ING" The lyrics have touched countless young women in love, but the reality has made many women in love disappointed and sad. "I dress up so hard to make him like it and to make him look good. He doesn't want to accompany me. I want him to pay the bills. How can I not go shopping together? Shopping is to enhance our relationship. Otherwise, how can I know how high his taste is and what type he likes?" Do you feel comfortable paying for me, and do you have the patience to accompany me to the end? Then you men say, if you don’t go shopping, what will you do on every date? Movies, restaurants, KTV, outdoor sports, your wallet may not be able to bear it. Although women love to go shopping, they don’t buy everything every time. The fun lies in shopping! "Although women give strong reasons for shopping, the game of shopping is still one of the most troublesome conflicts between men and women in love. one. During the long holiday that just passed, this contradiction was once again highlighted and stimulated the nerves of handsome men and beautiful women. The men were helpless and complained; the women also complained: When will men understand that what women are shopping for is not shopping, but love.

A couple in love broke up while shopping

Ms. Wang felt very depressed during the long holiday that just passed. For a sideshow - shopping, the young couple in love actually fell out and broke up.

Now that I talk about it, Ms. Wang is still very emotional. She was looking forward to this long vacation very much, and she and her boyfriend had thought about many plans to spend the long vacation together. Initially they thought about traveling overseas, but because their boyfriend Zhong Jian's company needed to work overtime, they had no choice but to give up. In order to make up for the loss of his girlfriend, Zhong Jian proposed that Miss Wang would arrange the remaining days of vacation. As long as she was happy, Miss Wang readily accepted it. In the remaining days, except for arranging a few gatherings with old classmates and friends, they were basically just two people. Watching movies, eating, singing karaoke... there are quite a lot of programs. Ms. Wang claims to be a person who pursues fashion. Fashion-related matters can arouse her interest and obsession. As a result, Ms. Wang has a special liking for shopping. During such a long vacation, of course you should enjoy shopping. In the first two days, perhaps because he felt indebted to his girlfriend, Zhong Jian was still willing to accept shopping requests, although every time he went shopping, he would feel dizzy and upset. After persisting like this for two days, I thought it was just a show for fun. Unexpectedly, Miss Wang actually regarded it as a daily repertoire. Zhong Jian also raised objections half-heartedly, but could not overcome Miss Wang's insistence. On the 6th, when Miss Wang proposed to go shopping again, Zhong Jian finally couldn't help but refuse. Miss Wang felt very angry when her boyfriend, who had taken great care of her for the past few days and had always been happy with her, suddenly changed, so she said angrily: "If you don't go, I will go alone." Who knows The angry Zhong Jian not only did not catch up, but turned around and left, which made Miss Wang very angry. This triggered a "vicious" fight between the two, until they broke up.

Ms. Wang still doesn’t understand why her boyfriend, who has always been so protective of her, broke up with her because of shopping? She even doubted whether her boyfriend really loved her.

The voice of a woman who is “a prostitute”

"If you love me, you won't refuse to do anything with me, let alone just go shopping. I dress up hard to please him and make him happy. Who will accompany me if he doesn't accompany me? In order to let him pay the bill, how can I not go shopping together?" Shopping is to enhance our relationship. Otherwise, how would I know how good his taste is, what kind of clothes he likes, whether he feels comfortable paying for me, and whether he has the patience to accompany me to the end..." All of the above are what women want men to do. Good reason to hang out with you.

In fact, there are many women in life who love shopping like Ms. Wang, and there is no distinction between age and class. Women love shopping, it is their innate nature. Moreover, women go shopping not only for shopping, but also for taste and fun. Shopping is an indispensable part of their lives. Women also compare shopping to a kind of review. This kind of review satisfies women's curiosity and grasp of fashion trends.

When women go shopping, the main purpose is "shopping." For women who do not have sufficient financial resources, "shopping" means a feast for the eyes, which is similar to "even if you don't get meat, it is expensive and satisfying." This kind of review-style shopping gave me a bagful of information and the right to speak among my companions. Shopping is still a kind of display. The bustling streets under neon lights and the dazzling shopping malls dotted with spotlights are all brilliant stages. A woman's "shopping" is a comprehensive display of her appearance, body shape and clothing. Therefore, the wise insight said: "Women wear beautiful clothes not to please men, but to annoy other women." When women walking on the street receive a flood of goodwill or envious looks, the reality of shopping is The meaning has been further deepened and expanded. The publicity of beauty, the comfortable state of mind, the feeling of happiness, and the feeling of being appreciated by others, although this is not all of shopping, it is already tempting enough. Shopping is also a way for women to realize their possessive desires. "A woman's wardrobe will always have one less item." No matter when and where, the number of women's clothing is always in short supply, and women always have good reasons to persuade and encourage themselves to buy new clothes. Of course, if you don’t buy anything, it’s quite pleasant to find a place by the window to have a cup of coffee.

These functions that women give to shopping are indispensable for their favorite "accompanying" people. Of course, single women invite their best friends, and the women "shopping" together in twos and threes, chatting and releasing while walking. Take the pressure off and free yourself. For women who are in love, their boyfriends become the "undesirable" choice to accompany them when shopping. The sweetness and convenience, and the joy of feeling more cheerful as the street goes by, make women appreciate this "matching of men and women." The group enjoys shopping without getting tired.

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The reasons why men hate “back-sliding” men

“It’s easy to drive a man crazy, just drag him out for a stroll.” This is how many men treat My attitude and feelings about going shopping with a woman. Mr. Chen is a high-quality white-collar worker in the eyes of the public. He told reporters: "For most men, it is very important to accompany women shopping. What they hate is not walking more than ten miles to buy a piece of underwear, but walking for so long. , wasted several hours, and finally touched and pinched the underwear that I liked, changing it again and again, and came to the conclusion: I don’t like it. It’s okay to go home with you empty-handed. What’s more annoying is that she still does it. Complain, I didn’t buy it, I’m in a bad mood. If you ask them to accompany you to watch the Premier League all night, they will shout: No! I want to sleep with you! Female comrades, when you insist on asking a man to accompany you when shopping, Think about the pain you have to accompany your men to watch football games, play cards, and talk about stockings.”

Shopping may be women’s nature, so they are tireless and take their time, but for men, shopping is the most troublesome. Something happened. Some men also list the sentence that women often say, "If he doesn't go shopping with me, he definitely doesn't love me" as one of the stupidest "love conditions" for women. Many women think that shopping is happiness, but it is difficult to resonate with men (excluding some gentle and charitable women's friends). Most of the dull-eyed men you see in shopping malls are coerced by women and do so as a last resort. In the eyes of many men, going shopping with a woman is simply a waste of time. They believe that women enjoy shopping from the bottom of their hearts. There is nothing in the mall that women are not interested in. No matter it is useful or useless, women are interested in taking a look, asking, and trying. Give it a try. In contrast, men's shopping is much more straightforward. If they like something, they can go directly to the counter and pay for it. However, this straightforwardness often leads to criticism from women.

The reason why men hate shopping is that every time they go shopping, men not only have to act as escorts, but also have to take on the role of "porters" in a gentlemanly manner. They should follow the woman obediently and carry things without complaining, otherwise they would be showing a lack of sincerity until their hands are no longer free.

There is another unspeakable secret when a man goes shopping with a woman: paying the bill. If your salary is not high, or you don't have much money, and you are forced to go shopping with your female companion, you will feel frightened every time your female companion picks up an expensive item.

Shopping with a woman is more stressful for men than at work

British psychologist Dr. David Lewis found through research that accompanying women shopping brings the greatest pressure to men, and this seems to be the nature of men. Men love giving gifts but are afraid of going shopping. They are happy to offload the shopping responsibility to their wife or secretary, and feel relieved when the latter comes back with the gift. According to Dr. Lewis, women have exactly the opposite attitude toward shopping. For them, shopping is a pleasure and the best way to relieve stress. He also explained that these are related to the different original division of labor between men and women. Men all have the potential to be hunters, so they make quick decisions when trouble comes. This potential also directly affects their daily lives, including shopping. What men value is how to buy gifts in the shortest possible time. As collectors, women will spend enough time searching for what they need, and they don't care how much time it takes.

But there are no absolutes. Another latest British survey shows that women actually don’t like to go shopping with their male partners or husbands. The vast majority of women interviewed believe that shopping alone or with friends or children is more enjoyable than being accompanied by a partner. A survey of 2,000 shopping customers conducted by MacArthur Glenn, a European specialty store chain, showed that women least like to see their "shopping" partners sigh, keep looking at their watches, or refuse to enter the store.

Men obviously have difficulties too. 35% of the men surveyed complained that their wives or girlfriends would visit all the stores without missing a beat; 34% believed that women took too long to make decisions; 31% insisted on not entering the store and only waited outside the door.

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