How to express "silent love"?
On Chinese Valentine's Day, we think of love more deeply.
Chinese people express their feelings in a very reserved way. They are used to hiding their feelings in their hearts. They like to do more than talk. They are always shy to say those three words. However, our current survey data shows that more than half of the respondents still very much look forward to the other half saying those three words - I love you.
Yes, we cannot change the other person, but we can at least influence it - this "Chinese Valentine's Day", can we try to break through ourselves, express our feelings in a new way, and tell each other loudly:
I love you!
Has your partner ever said the words "I love you"?
1 Yes, often 22%
2 Yes, occasionally 45%
3 Never said 33%
Do you expect it? He said "I love you"?
1 Yes, very much looking forward to it 52%
2 It doesn’t matter if we say it or not 24%
3 Not looking forward to it, I think the “love” I say is fake 17 %
4 Not sure 7%
Do you think the way he expresses love, language or behavior is more important?
1 Language, if I don’t say it, I can’t be sure of what he really thinks 7%
2 Behavior, everything can be said without saying anything 41%
3 Equally important 38% < /p>
4 It doesn’t matter, it depends on his preference 7%
5 Never thought about this problem 7%
Which way do you prefer him to express his love?
1 Sweet words 3%
2 Hugs 38%
3 Eyes 21%
4 Gifts 24%
5 Other 14%
Can you feel the "silent love" from him?
1 Yes, I can always feel his intentions 48%
2 No, he seems careless 36%
3 Didn’t pay attention 16%
Do you give timely feedback on his love?
1 Yes, as long as I feel his love, I will express it to him in time 59%
2 No, I am not good at expressing, I always keep it in my heart silently, and then use actions Return 17%
3 Occasionally give him 24%
What is your common way of expressing love?
1 Language 12%
2 Eyes 21%
3 Action 41%
4 Gifts 14%
5 Other 12%
Do you think the way of emotional communication between you satisfies each other?
1 Yes, we are both very satisfied 46%
2 I did a good job, but I am not very satisfied with him 15%
3 He did a good job, I I still need to improve 15%
4 Both parties are dissatisfied 24%
Share the following "silent love" -
Yingnan (company employee): Every diary on my blog has his message, which is very detailed and he also helps me analyze it. problems and confusions encountered. Looking at every word he spoke so carefully, I could feel the encouragement and support from him, which gave me more confidence and courage to face life.
Fang Boshen (original singer): She handed me a notebook. I opened it and saw all the text messages I had sent her. A whole year of text messages, a thick book, with dates and times written down in great detail. He even wrote down my simplest replies: OK, OK, OK.
Zhao Zheng (actor): My wife Runrun is also an actress, but she sacrificed the best opportunity for her career to rise, marry me and have children. I am usually very busy filming. In order to reunite my baby and me, she would bring her baby to the city where I was filming. The conditions of the crew were not good, but she had no regrets, stayed with me, and worked hard to create a comfortable and warm environment for me. environment.
Xiao Zhen (agent): We watched "My Sassy Girl" together in the theater, and he seemed to be inspired after that. He kept it in mind what colors and smells I like. I like spicy hotpot. Every time I order a meal, he carefully tells the waiter to put less chili and more coriander in my portion. Afraid that I would eat peppercorns, he even picked out the peppercorns from the vegetable leaves.
Xiao Li (painter): Whenever I travel to a place and encounter beautiful scenery that makes me excited and happy, I will think of calling him or sending him an MMS to share my feelings with him. For example, one time when I was at the beach, I dialed his phone and listened to the sound of the waves with him. Then I took photos of the scenery on the sea and sent him an MMS message, so that he could be as immersed in the scene as I was.
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