We rarely think about the nature of sex. Whether it is to complete the reproduction of the human race, a heartbeat journey, a tool to make money, a means of promotion, or a routine year after year. With the development of civilization, simple sex has been given more and more missions and taboos. Love becomes less and less possible, and the more love becomes more and more troublesome.

Samantha in "SEX AND THE CITY" has a classic saying: "Marriage is the legalization of two people having sex non-stop for a week." For human beings who like the new and dislike the old, this is cruel and somewhat cruel. There is some black humor, and even more black humor is: in this episode, the great sex practitioner Samantha immediately met a man who had been married for 15 years at the party of two newlyweds who were about to be "legalized". A man she had dated before had a weird habit during sex: when the climax came, he liked the other person to hold his hair tightly with his hands. Samantha also relied on this to recognize this "old lover" ".

There are two key words in the above text: legalization and quirks.

The topic we want to talk about today is exactly these two keywords strung together: if you are about to or inevitably enter some kind of "legalization" state, how should you deal with your man's "quirks" in bed? ". My girlfriend Lulu got married six months ago, and she has been complaining to me: her husband prefers unconventional ways to have sex. This makes her, who has always been traditional, feel ashamed because she cannot accept this way of a man, either psychologically or physically, even if the man is her husband.

Although I had explained to her psychologically and physically why men like oral sex, she still could not convince herself to accept this "quirk", and finally, she began to refuse to have sex with her husband.

Before writing this article, I did a simple sample survey, and the results proved that: in every woman's heart, there are always one or two ways of having sex that she cannot accept.

1. Violence

Xiaoyi, a 28-year-old company employee

“Many men think that when a woman says she doesn’t want it, what she wants in her heart is that she wants it. So in bed, my Rejection became his excuse to forcefully have sex with me. The more I refused him, the more excited he became. I can’t imagine that most men dream of having sex like this, like beasts... We are advanced animals... If you guys. I am willing to become an animal, but I don’t want to degrade myself to a cat or dog.”

The main reason why most women hate violent sex is not the pain and violation of their will, but “like an animal”. Because this sex position makes them feel like they are being manipulated and driven.

2. Being asked to say dirty words

Zhuang Yannv, 20-year-old student

“My boyfriend always wants me to say dirty words during sex, such as FUCK ME, and some more vulgar words, which I really don’t like...but he said that it would make him more excited. Sometimes he thinks He is completely different from the person he is in bed, and I am really sad. His excitement has turned me into embarrassment and disappointment."

For a gentle lady, life is very different. It is not easy to say dirty words, let alone during sex! The more critical factor behind this is that when women say dirty words, they will feel that the dirty words are directed at themselves, and they lack the feeling of being respected. The contrast between the man who usually takes good care of her and this sex lover who lets him talk dirty is really huge.

3. Oral sex

A 30-year-old Yaya female executive

“I will never give oral sex to my husband. I feel embarrassed even saying this word. In my In my opinion, it is a special method used by prostitutes to attract repeat customers.”

Yaya’s view is more extreme, but the acceptance of oral sex is so low that I was unexpected. In fact, when The first time I heard a male friend complain that his girlfriend never served him, I was very surprised. This time, the results of the survey further confirmed this surprising fact. However, more women express dissatisfaction with men who suddenly ask for oral sex in the middle of sex. Some women regard it as a very disgusting behavior for the other party to press her head hard when giving oral sex. 4. Role fantasy

Fang Keer’s 25-year-old salesperson

“I don’t know when my husband started to be creative during sex. He often comes up with unexpected tricks, such as buying some sex toys, such as In the bathroom, having sex on the terrace was acceptable to me, but then she asked me to play certain roles during sex. He said it made him more excited, but I felt that some roles were an insult to my character. For example, prostitutes."

The fantasy of characters during sex may bring more pleasure and imagination to both parties. After all, two people are together all the year round, and their tricks are endless, and more often than not, fantasy can fill up the shortcomings in life. However, the fantasies of some characters may require a good communication between the two parties, otherwise the other party will instinctively resist.

In bed, men are not the only dominators. They also need to fully respect women’s opinions, which can make your sex more harmonious and beautiful.

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