How to deal with heavy bleeding on the first night?

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First taste of "forbidden fruit", girl suffers from massive vaginal bleeding

On the afternoon of September 3, a 17 or 18-year-old girl came to the gynecology clinic of Guilin Second People's Hospital. After coming in, the little girl stood carefully and refused to sit down. She coyly explained the reason for the treatment in a low voice.

It turned out that the little girl had heavy vaginal bleeding when she had sex with her boyfriend for the first time the night before. Because she was shy, the little girl ran to the pharmacy to buy hemostatic medicine, but it still didn't stop the bleeding. She had been bleeding for more than ten hours. Because she was so scared, the little girl had no choice but to come to the hospital for help.

After questioning, Chen Huanji, director of the gynecology department, thought it was a hymen laceration and heavy bleeding, so he comforted her and said, "Don't be nervous. Don't worry when you come to the hospital." So Chen Huanji immediately summoned the doctor and head nurse on duty. An emergency suturing operation was performed on the little girl. "During the operation, the hymen had been torn and extended to 1 centimeter into the vaginal wall, and there was active bleeding, accompanied by vaginal wall hematoma." After Chen Huanji removed the hematoma, he sutured the vaginal wall laceration. The entire operation went smoothly and the bleeding was stopped immediately.

Now, the little girl is recovering well and is ready to be discharged from the hospital.

It is related to the thickness of the hymen or the small pores

In today's society, there are many teenagers who want to taste the forbidden fruit, but they don't know much about the physiological structure of the human body. They are also in a hazy stage mentally, and are not yet mature physically and mentally. Chen Huanji said: "I don't encourage people to have sex at a young age. Some people may know that it will hurt and bleed for the first time, but they never expect that there will be heavy bleeding."

Why does it happen on the first night? What about bleeding? Chen Huanji said that a woman's vaginal opening has a thin membrane called the "hymen". The hymen will be torn or stretched during sexual intercourse for the first time. If it is torn, vaginal bleeding will occur, commonly known as "redness". But some women don’t bleed during sex for the first time because their hymen is thick and elastic. In addition, the hymen will naturally rupture due to strenuous fitness exercises, horse riding, cycling, dancing, masturbation, trauma, labor, etc. The bleeding and pain may be slight and unnoticed. The lack of bleeding is also related to the thickness of the hymen. Some people will not bleed obviously after it is damaged.

But why is there bleeding? "Sometimes a woman's hymen is thick, the hymen hole is too small, or the man's sexual intercourse is rough, which may lead to increased bleeding. If the laceration reaches the labia minora wall or vaginal wall, it will cause heavy bleeding." Chen Huanji explained.

Men should be gentle on the first night

So, what should you do if heavy bleeding occurs on the first night?

Chen Huanji said that if the bleeding is heavy, you should immediately use clean gauze or handkerchief to block the lower vagina or vaginal opening, and tie a menstrual belt. Women can use their fingers to press the packing material to stop bleeding, clamp their legs, and rest in a side-lying position. After 6 hours, the packing material can be removed, and the bleeding can mostly be stopped. However, you should not have sex within 3 days to prevent the wound from reopening.

If there is a lot of bleeding and the above methods cannot stop the bleeding, you must go to the gynecologist in time. You still need to apply pressure to stop the bleeding during the treatment to avoid excessive blood loss and shock, which is life-threatening. After suturing to stop bleeding, sexual intercourse should not be allowed until healing.

How to prevent heavy bleeding on the first night? Chen Huanji said that the man must be patient and gentle. The penis should be inserted slowly and the vagina that is too tight should be slowly expanded. If you are unsuccessful at one time, you can do it in stages, and you should appease the woman. When virgins have sex for the first time, in addition to being fully prepared mentally, they should also pay attention to the following matters: 1. Make sure your partner understands your mood when facing sex for the first time. You can talk to him about your feelings in advance. Concerns; 2. Make appropriate arrangements for yourself, including a private place and ample time; 3. Pay attention to vaginal hygiene, clean your lower body before sex, and pay attention to contraception.