How to control the frequency of sex during the wedding period?

Generally speaking, the frequency of sexual intercourse varies with race, region, social and cultural background, as well as personal age, health and mental state. Some newlyweds have sex almost every day during their honeymoon. On the wedding night, they have sex 4-5 times in a row, and they even have sex behind closed doors during the day. However, it should be moderated and not excessive.

Some people surveyed that the number of men’s sexual intercourse generally decreases with age. During the period of 22-25 years old, it is three times a week; between the ages of 32-35 years old, it is twice a week; between the ages of 41-45 years old, it is twice a week. , down to once a week. Of course, this is just an average. Each age group varies greatly, with some having it several times a day and others as little as once a month. Therefore, we cannot judge whether sexual intercourse is appropriate based on the frequency of sexual intercourse alone.

The frequency of sexual life, how many times is appropriate, and the amount of sexual activity is different for each person. If it is purely from a physiological point of view, then regardless of gender, regardless of age, when sexual excitement occurs, as long as it is not forced and there is no uncomfortable feeling, then you can have sex without having to think about the last time. for how long.

The so-called reluctance among women refers to succumbing to the sexual demands of men; among men, it means: originally not wanting to have sex, but relying on reading pornographic books or videos to "stimulate" themselves, They even forced themselves to masturbate in order to engage in sexual activity. This is quite harmful. Because after each ejaculation, men will no longer have sexual response for a short or long period of time. It is a natural protection for men. If you force yourself to engage in sexual life at this time, it is equivalent to destroying your own refractory period protection, which is of course harmful to the body.

Many infertile patients are often at a loss as to how often they should have sex, because some doctors allow them to have more sex, while others restrict them. How to do this? Is it more effective?

The objective standard to measure whether the frequency of sexual life is appropriate is whether you are full of energy and happy in body and mind the next morning. If the following conditions occur on the second day or within a few days after sexual intercourse, and no other reasons can be found, it can be considered excessive, and you should exercise restraint and appropriately extend the interval between sexual intercourse.

1. Mental fatigue, listlessness, listlessness, easy to feel tired at work, lack of concentration in study, and drowsiness.

2. The whole body is weak, the waist is sore and the legs are weak, too lazy to move, top-heavy, dizzy, and stars in the eyes.

3. Pale complexion, dull eyes, haggard expression, and emaciated body.

4. Shortness of breath, heartbeat, frequent sweating, insomnia and dreaminess, and difficulty falling asleep.

5. Loss of appetite, no desire to eat, poor appetite, and mild nausea.

If the above situation occurs, it should be corrected in time and the frequency of sexual life should be reduced. In severe cases, sexual life should be suspended for a period of time. However, there is no need to worry too much about this, because: Generally, excessive sexual life will not cause any serious harm to health as long as you temporarily stop sexual life for a period of time, pay attention to rest, and strengthen nutrition. Of course, if you continue to indulge yourself, the consequences will be bad.

Tips for newlyweds: When you are newlyweds, the relationship between husband and wife is in a state of jeopardy, and you have just had the experience of having sex, so it is inevitable that you will have frequent sex.

It is worth mentioning that men are more likely to indulge themselves and have sex too frequently. In the eyes of some men, the more sexual intercourse the more powerful and dignified a man is. Perhaps, they are not clearly aware of this, but they just feel that they should try their best to satisfy their wives' sexual requirements.

Therefore, after they have obtained pleasure from sexual life, they will continue to strengthen their sexual awareness, attempt to achieve another erection in the shortest possible time, and use the power of will to support their exhausted body for sexual intercourse. Life, this is undoubtedly very harmful to physical and mental health.