For girls who are looking for a boyfriend, it is difficult to distinguish a man's character. What is the difficulty? There are several main points:

First, men in love are good at pretending.

Selfish people can pretend to be selfless; people with a bad temper can pretend to be gentle; stingy people can pretend to be broad-minded; chauvinism can pretend to be gentle, considerate, and tender.

It is not difficult for a man with bad character to disguise himself for a short period of time, or even until marriage. But one cannot pretend for a lifetime!

When the disguise is ruthlessly taken off after marriage, are you ready?

Second, following your feelings will blindfold girls.

Girls are always more emotional. I don’t know how to identify boys, so I just like to follow my feelings. Some girls also believe in their sixth sense. They can tell at a glance whether a boy is good or bad.

But she didn’t know that it felt like it would cover her eyes. Perhaps, when they realize the truest side of a boy with bad character, they have already suffered a bloody blow and paid a heavy price.

Most girls have this idea that they can slowly understand a boy’s character through interactions. There is a truth to this idea, and it will change people's minds over time.

However, as you slowly understand during the relationship, this is also a wrong idea. This will actually lead you to fall into the trap of following your feelings. Time changes people's hearts. The key is how long does it take? Is it three months? One year? Five years? Or for a lifetime? Perhaps, by the time you truly understand his dark side, you may have already paid a heavy price.

For example, a girl broke up with her boyfriend. At this time, they had been together for five years. After five years, she realized that he was selfish, self-centered, picky, and not a good man, but she had been Trapped. Unable to escape, in the end, he fell in love with someone else, and she was free.

A girl broke up with her husband. She finally recognized the true nature of her husband, but she also paid a very painful price, eight years of youth! Even worse, being single turned into divorce.

Thirdly, the most difficult thing about distinguishing a man's character is that you have to make a judgment in a short time.

Let’s give an example:

A girl agreed to her ex-boyfriend after dating him for two months. After confirming the relationship, she discovered that he had many shortcomings. He was noisy, unreliable, and complained all day long. Relationships with colleagues and friends are not handled well. He still spends time with his ex-girlfriend. But she knew that this man was not suitable for her, so she couldn't make up her mind to break up with him. In the end, Shi Zai broke up when he couldn't wait any longer. It lasted for more than a year, and everyone shed a layer of skin.

This example is very common. Most girls often surrender hastily after meeting a boy they feel is right for them. Before confirming the relationship, they only see his good side and often ignore his shortcomings. Nothing is known. After confirming the relationship, she discovered her many shortcomings, but it was already too late.

The most difficult thing about identifying a boy is that you have to make the correct judgment in the shortest time. If a boy is the type you don't like and you have no feelings for him, girls often have enough time and a calm mind to analyze his humanity, his strengths and weaknesses. But what use is this analysis, no matter how correct, to a person you don't like?

On the contrary, if you meet someone who feels right, the time left for girls to think calmly is often very short, maybe 1 month at most. Once a girl gets emotional, people will become stupid and lose their ability to think calmly.

1 month!

If you meet a boy you have feelings for very much, and given a month, can you see through him and see through him? Abandon him decisively or choose him?

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