Many girlfriends around me complain that "when you get married, a woman becomes a different person." "Looking at yourself in the mirror, do you know that from that day on, you no longer look like yourself? After you get married, you just become a different person. Can you watch yourself transform from a lady to a shrew? "How does marriage force away a woman's tenderness?" How can a yellow-faced woman turn back into a hottie and keep her husband's heart?

No.1 Housework

★Situational Photo

32-year-old Sang Xiaotong rushed to the supermarket to buy groceries after work and went home to cook. 20 minutes later, her husband came back. Take off your apron that is full of oil smoke, wash your rough hands, and serve the food to the table. After dinner, Sang Xiaotong said to her husband: "I'm too tired today, please help me wash the dishes!" Her husband turned on the TV and said: "Are you tired? I'm not tired? It's hard for me to give in after get off work. Is it enough for you women to do the housework of washing dishes?”

★Listen to her

Don’t you know that I feel bad when I see my hands become rough? ? As time goes by, who can bear it? Of course, the temper will get worse and worse, from talking softly to nagging, and finally to roaring like a lion in the east of the river.

★Coping skills

Direct method: Say to him: "I won't do anything! If the house is not tidied, it will not be tidied up! Don't wash the dishes, don't even think about your food. After eating, don’t expect me to wash your clothes! Let’s do our own thing from now on!”

Indirect method: After discussing it, set the rules and let him do the housework on weekends. , let him also know how hard you are. Unless he is an idiot, no matter how stupid he is, he can understand how tired you are from being so busy every day!

No.2 Money

★Scenario photo

Sang Xiaotong and her husband went shopping for New Year’s goods. Her husband suggested going to a big restaurant to eat Western food. Sang Xiaotong disagreed and said, “Just save a little and go to a small restaurant.” The husband glanced at her: "When did you become so tasteless?" Sang Xiaotong's face sank: "Taste? Do you think I don't want to enjoy the luxury money brings?" Husband: "Money, money, money!" Money, it doesn’t cost much to eat Western food.” Sang Xiaotong threw the things away and said, “I’m not trying to save money for you!” He ran away in tears...

★Listen to her

You have to save enough money every month to pay for water, electricity, phone bills, gas bills...and the expenses of oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar...it's all a big deal. We have to pay for a house, we have children, and we have to save money for the children. There are many places to spend money! If you want me to go to the supermarket to buy vegetables and fruits like a lady every day like before I got married, I would be happy!

★Coping skills

Direct method: Stop managing accounts from now on, be romantic and luxurious every day like you did when you were in love! A month later, let him see how terrible the family expenses are and let him know how heavy the price is.

Indirect method: Tell him: "If you earn 10,000 yuan a month, I don't care about anything. Spend it however you want! If you give me 10,000 yuan a month, I promise to be yours forever." The gentlest woman! ”

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No.3 Men’s bad habits

★Situational photo

At 12:30 late at night, Sang Xiaotong was alone at home waiting for her husband to come home. But after waiting all night, her husband came back the next morning, smelling of alcohol and perfume. Sang Xiaotong pointed at her husband and yelled: "Where did you go last night? How many times have you said this to yourself?

★Listen to what she said

When we were in love before, I didn’t know about many of his bad habits, such as not brushing his teeth before going to bed and liking to stay up all night playing games. It's time to change underwear...and I said it over and over again, but he refused to change it.

★Coping skills

Direct method: If he really only wants to take it hard, give it to him. He must be cruel.

Indirect method: Plan some small scenes, use other people's words to educate him, and make him realize that his problem really exists. Then you can give him a little guidance and he will behave. Correction. All men want is face! If you say he doesn’t change, it’s just that he doesn’t need to talk about face with you.

No.4 Lack of self-space.

★Situational photo

Sang Xiaotong got up early in the morning on weekends and was busy at home. Her husband looked at her coldly and said, "Look at Mrs. Li. She goes hiking and does body care on weekends. How fun is it to take a piano class? You are nothing like you, you look like an aunt!" Sang Xiaotong said while mopping the floor, "Don't you think Mrs. Li doesn't have to go to work all day? , my husband is rich, and the family hired a servant to take care of the housework." The husband dismissed it: "We can't compare with her, but you used to be a cultural person, why are your cultivation and quality worse than before?" Sang Xiaotong threw the mop away: "My quality is low, and it's all thanks to you!"

★Listen to her

Although my work is not very busy, I still have a lot of work. Ben went back to buy groceries and cook, and after dinner he had to supervise the children to do their homework. I am exhausted at the end of the day and have no time for myself at all.

★Coping skills

Direct method: If you want to learn to paint, don’t hesitate to sign up for a painting tutorial class, pay the money, and give yourself a chance. You have to learn the way.

Indirect method: Arrange a schedule for your time at home, just like work, handle everything at home in an orderly manner. Set aside a morning on weekends as your own time, and do not do any housework, and do not allow anyone to disturb you. If your family members want to see you for something, tell them firmly that it is not possible now and ask them to solve it on their own.

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