How to Avoid Your Boyfriend’s “Sex Codes”
Many girls have faced sexual demands from their boyfriends. What should you do when your beloved boyfriend asks you for sex? Boys are most afraid of girls rejecting them. At this time some soft-hearted girls agreed. But many girls don't know how to change "no" into "art".
If you are a principled girl, if you want your first time to be on your wedding night, if you are worried that if your boyfriend rejects you in person, he may lose face, which will lead to your relationship in the future. If the relationship gradually fades and finally breaks up, you might as well try the following methods:
▲Sorry, I can't do this. Because we haven't been together for a long time and our understanding isn't deep enough, I can't be so casual. If you love me, wait a little longer. If it happened now, it would be a disservice to each other.
▲If we are truly destined, we will always belong to each other. Why not save the most beautiful moment for the wedding night? We will all be happy that way, because we will do it with the congratulations of both parents and friends.
▲I love you very much. If you really love me, please respect my choice. Let us mature together within constraints, shall we?
The above expression is gentle but firm. I believe that as long as he really loves you, he will accept your rejection because of your persistence. When you are able to express your feelings through words and thoughts instead of just physical contact, it means that the relationship between the two people has deepened.
But not all girls can be as resolute as the above. Many people will be at a loss in this situation and hand themselves over in a muddle while being extremely conflicted in their hearts. Such a girl cares too much about the other person's feelings and cannot bear to say no. We might as well take a look at the "Three Steps to Social Love":
From the beginning of your relationship, when he holds your hand, you'd better make a gentleman's agreement or a three-part agreement with him. When you can't control it, you can easily refuse. Your mentality is different, and you have the upper hand in both emotion and reason.
Secondly, in the process of dating, we should try to create as little as possible an environment that makes it easy for someone to cheat. Finally, there is an emergency measure. If at a critical moment, you don't feel comfortable saying "no" righteously and gently, and you don't want to have sex too early, then you might as well move out the "big aunt (menstruation)". If the other party believes it, then you can believe it. If you don’t believe it, it’s probably hard to say anything. The purpose of rejection is achieved naturally.
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