Recently, I heard a friend talk about a relative of hers who "drifted away" after a flash marriage because the two couldn't get along at all. I heard the same story five or six times last year. The key words in the story are nothing more than: money, house, and housework. The plots of the stories are also strikingly similar: After getting married, the two parties discovered that the other party was so fussy and petty, and that their living habits and consumption concepts were very different. At the end of the story, there is often such a line: "He (she) is not the person I am looking for." I can't help but think of what Mr. Qian Zhongshu said through Zhao Xinmei: "The honeymoon trip after marriage is in reverse order. They should travel together for a month, and after a month of boating and driving, the two parties have not seen through each other, disliked each other, and have not quarreled. They still have to maintain the original engagement. This kind of couple guarantees that they will not divorce." More than sixty years after the novel was completed. Today, after listening to so many incredible stories, I realize its practical significance even more and admire Mr. Qian's wisdom.

It is said that "distance creates beauty", but once two people who admire each other because of the distance enter into marriage, they will have to face the real "zero distance". When you lift up your wedding dress, you can not only clearly see the moles and folds on the other person's face, but also the "big tail" that was well hidden during the passionate love. Couples who have been dating for several years may struggle after marriage: "Why was I so blind that I fell in love with someone like you!" Not to mention the "flash marriages" who rush to the wedding hall before they have finished their "spiritual honeymoon" . Elders often say: "Marriage is not just a matter of two people." But if the two parties cannot understand each other thoroughly and know how to look at the problem from the other's point of view, what is the meaning of such a marriage?

There will always be all kinds of problems and troubles encountered during the journey, ranging from determining the location and arranging accommodation to paying the bill after the meal and packing the luggage. This is a test of the endurance, tolerance, hospitality and other aspects of both parties. Good opportunity for small sections. My best friend Ying has been dating her boyfriend for more than a year. Because they are still young, she said "wait a little longer" several times when the boy proposed marriage. But I secretly saved up a week of paid leave and dragged my boyfriend to Sanya in the summer. That boy was known to be gentle and considerate, and he lived up to expectations during the week-long "pre-marriage inspection." With excellent "normal grades" and perfect performance in the "final exam", Ying's boyfriend finally got what he wanted. However, not all stories are so satisfactory, and there are also many "marriage apprentices" who parted ways because they failed the "final exam". Every time at this time, the line mentioned above will appear: "He (she) is not the person I am looking for." How lucky they can realize this before receiving the red book, and this is important in advance. Discovery" may change their lives.

I watched the fire from the other side, watching the separation and reunion around me with cold eyes. My friend said: "When the fire burns you, you may not be able to keep a clear head." I smiled and said: "In any case, before getting married, I will let him travel with me first."

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