Nowadays, how to have a good first night is a question that every girl who is about to get married is concerned about. Some people say that the first sexual life on the wedding night is very important. If it is not done well, it will affect the sexual life between husband and wife in the future, thus affecting the relationship between husband and wife. So, how to have sex for the first time? What should you pay attention to? There will be a detailed introduction next.

Sex life is very comfortable and enjoyable. But everyone has a first time, so what should men pay attention to during their first sexual life to make women feel comfortable? So let’s learn together.

1 First time having sex. In fact, men are more nervous than women. You must maintain hygiene during sex. You must take a shower before starting. You must also brush your teeth or spray some breath freshener while taking a shower. This must be remembered.

2. Don’t come out just wearing a bathrobe and towel after taking a shower, thinking about quickly getting married to a woman. If you are too impatient, women will feel bad about you and their desire will be reduced. So after taking a shower, you can wear underwear to flirt with women, so that both parties can enjoy the fun of taking off their clothes.

3If the man is considerate enough. After taking a bath, you can help the woman put in the bath water, prepare towels, toothbrushes, etc. After washing everything, politely let the woman go to bed first. You can make some excuses, such as going to the bathroom, etc. After the woman has gone to bed, lie quietly on the right side of the woman. This can also avoid being too shy.

Many people's first sexual intercourse is not ideal and they find it strange, but it turns out that 99.9% of couples' first sexual intercourse is difficult or even a failure. Moreover, there are some couples who end up parting ways because of the failure of their first sexual intercourse, which affects their relationship. Here is a typical example for everyone’s reference. I hope friends who have not yet been exposed to sex can learn from it.

Cases of failed sexual intercourse for the first time:

A boy and a girl fell in love and lived together for more than half a month. During this period, the boy made several requests for sex. The girl felt that they were not married and should not be married, so she always disagreed. Usually boys are not really angry. The strange thing is that boys get angry every Saturday because of girls' reluctance.

After the two of them got along, the boy would talk to the girl a lot, and finally the girl agreed to try it. But what the girl didn't expect was that it hurt so much, it was almost suffocating. After trying it a few times, the girl started to flinch, and the boy started to say that it would hurt the first time, and that it was normal, so he just had to endure it and it would be fine. But in the end, the boy loses patience and wants to bully him, and the girl will definitely resist instinctively.

As a result, the boy stopped entering and went soft! Then I became very irritable and frustrated, put on my clothes and slammed the door and walked out. The girl doesn't know how to face the boy, and she doesn't know what to do in the future. That night was traumatic for both of them, as the boy was aroused but had to stop, while the girl was frightened by the boy's reaction.

Expert analysis:

First, if a woman does not want to have sexual intercourse, she should not live in the same room and bed with the man;

Second, sexual intercourse requires learning. Especially for the first time, you need to master the basic knowledge of sexual physiological reactions. Both parties have entered the excitement period (especially the plateau period when the woman's vaginal opening is fully open), (the man's penis is fully erect, and there is exudate at the urethral opening; the woman's vagina is fully moist, and the Bartholin glands secrete lubricating fluid). This is the time The timing of penetration must be completely voluntary on both sides, especially the woman.

At the same time, we can deeply understand from this case that sex is a matter between two people and can only be done well if both parties are willing to do so. And if it is just to release one's own selfish desires without considering the feelings of the other party, then sexual intercourse will definitely fail.

Things a man should note for his first time:

The most important thing is that during the whole process, it is best to avoid having relatives and friends make trouble at the wedding, because this is your most beautiful and most anticipated moment, and you should cherish it.

Because newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge and are new to each other, they are prone to nervousness, shyness and fear. It is normal for them to have a poor sex life. So how to do it?

1. Do more romantic things before having sex, especially more foreplay. Don’t be like a hungry wolf, biting on sight.

2. Since this is your first time in ML, don’t be too nervous and rush into it, but take your time.

3. This is the time when women feel the most pain, and it is the best time for men to show comfort and concern. Be sure to do it slowly and don't move too big.

4. Pay attention to her expression. If she is in pain, don't force it as it will cast a shadow on her.

5. Bring TT, pay attention to hygiene, and wash it afterwards to be healthier.

I hope what I explained above can give you a better understanding. In short, it is best to have a good wedding night, but what should you pay attention to? Specifically, please pay attention to the following points:

1. Pay attention to external genital hygiene

On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Newlyweds are busy and tired due to purchasing items for marriage and entertaining relatives and friends. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

2. Take good contraceptive measures

If both men and women do not want to have a child immediately and do not take birth control pills, both couples will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate highly and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate on sex, and achieve satisfactory results in sex life.

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