Do you have any detailed rules for the division of labor in your sexual life? Have you done your job well? Today Brother Danding will give you an in-depth analysis of the division of labor in sex life.

Who should initiate sexual activity? Some couples are accustomed to the division of roles. Some husbands believe that they should be responsible for their wives’ sexual needs. Therefore, “No matter when and where she asks, I will satisfy her and never refuse her.” There are also husbands. They believe that sex is decided by men, and as long as they are happy, their wives will be satisfied, without considering the mood and physical conditions of both parties at that time. This is the result of being overly restricted and restrained by the division of roles.

In fact, the roles in sexual life should have a certain division of labor, but they cannot be overly limited. The most important thing is mutual understanding and respect. We must strive to mobilize our own sexual initiative, explore each other's sexual potential, and understand each other's sexual sensitive zones, suitable postures, foreplay methods and other factors through candid communication, so as to make both parties happy. sexual needs are met.

Although when the sexual needs of both parties are consistent, there will be a certain regularity in sexual life, but it is not constant. It depends on the mood, sexual desire, physical condition, and environmental conditions of both parties. Changes with changes in other factors, there should be an adjustment mechanism to achieve an appropriate balance between the satisfaction of both parties.

Generally speaking, when the husband is young, the wife can cool down the overheated sexual response by changing the environment, distracting attention, etc.; while when the wife is young, she needs her husband to talk about love, hug frequently, etc. to help her sexual response. Raise the temperature, thus feeling the "sexual pulse" of both parties, thereby achieving a harmonious sexual life.