My personality is relatively indecisive. Maybe it is my personality that determines where I am today. I am 25 years old this year and have just passed my birth year. It’s been two and a half years since I got divorced. Don’t be surprised. I’ve read your article and I may be the kind of unconfident woman you mentioned.

It was very painful for me when I got married, because I had always loved another person in my heart, but my family objected at that time. , I still keep in touch with him, and he also said that he still loves me. I am a woman who advocates love by nature. I thought I could endure a marriage without love, but I was wrong. Two months later, my marriage it's over. So, I returned to him again, but problems kept coming one after another. Although he loved me too, his parents were really sad. It has been almost two years and we have been secretly communicating. I am very afraid that if his parents find out, we may not be able to be together. I cherish our relationship and have never thought about leaving him. But he is too young to keep putting it off forever. After the Spring Festival, when the weather gets warmer, we plan to have a showdown with his parents. In fact, no matter in terms of family background, work, or personal conditions, we are a good match, but only When it comes to divorce, his father is very concerned with saving face and may find it difficult to deal with it. Although we just held a wedding and did not officially register our marriage. But our two families are not far apart, so it’s very troublesome. I want you to give me an idea on how to convince his parents that it would be more effective. As long as I can be with him, it doesn't matter if I pay more. But now, I feel helpless, powerless, and powerless. ”

As far as the current situation is concerned, we can only take it one step at a time. You should ask yourself and him: If his parents object, will he be shaken? What will you do? Will your marriage not be shaken? Will your marriage end due to some objections from your parents?

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If the answer is yes, then your marriage may as well be slowed down Let’s talk again. If you think you should try your best to overcome difficulties and get married even if your parents are against it, then there is nothing to worry about. No matter how stubborn your parents are, they can’t change your determined children. The sooner you tell them, the better. Let the other party have a process of acceptance.

When it comes to marriage, women should also take a tougher attitude. Even a short marriage is not a fatal flaw in today's society. Showing his ability and virtuousness is the best reason to convince his parents: your marriage will not change, and the only thing left is for them to change their minds! People always have a feeling for the strong. Obedience mentality, if you are firm, the other party will obey. At least the older generation will feel in their hearts: Only a woman with ideas can run a prosperous family life! As parents, they will respect an independent daughter-in-law, not an independent daughter-in-law. A weak woman who seems to be weak and helpless cannot be happy, because in real life, happy marriages are often "robbed"! Strong women have always had more initiative!

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