Before getting married, a man cares and cares for a woman in every possible way. If you call him and tell him that he accidentally sprained his foot, he will rush over without saying anything, take you to the hospital carefully, and then take you safely to the hospital. send home. Not only does he have to provide timely comfort, but he also has to endure your unreasonable complaints - you are deeply touched by his patience and care, and you think to yourself, wouldn't it be a pity not to marry such a man? So, when he proposed again, you agreed without hesitation. It's just that after the wedding, especially after giving birth to children for him, your value curve also plummeted. I believe many women feel the same way about this. Every time they talk about it, they "gnash their teeth" with hatred for their men. Unfortunately, it's too late. Now that you are a wife and a mother, you don’t have the confidence to make any troubles. In fact, while women are complaining about men, men are also complaining about their women, and the reasons are sufficient and the words are conclusive. That neglect hurt me deeply. Chen Ming: Female, 35 years old, civil servant. 35-year-old Chen Ming has a six-year-old son, but she is still beautiful. She has lost the impetuousness and greenness of her youth, but has added a little bit of married life. A woman's plainness and calmness, her husband is 37 years old and a company boss. Chen Ming said that before we got married, he was very kind to me. He would call me regularly every day to greet me. When he found that I was not in a high mood, he would definitely make time to visit me. If he really couldn't spare the time, he would also ask on the phone to make sure everything was okay. Only then can I feel free to work. Every holiday or anniversary, a gift will be carefully prepared to surprise me. To be honest, I was really moved by his thoughtfulness at the time, and soon we got married. Life was still sweet at the beginning, but after we had our son, the sweetness in life became less and less. On the contrary, the number of quarrels over trivial matters increased more and more. He also began to turn a blind eye to my mood swings. He always said that he was busy at work and would not reply. I just want to rest at home. At first I complained a lot, but later I didn't even have the interest to complain because he didn't respond to you at all. Looking at his attitude today, I am very sad. It is said that women begin to devalue after a wedding. This statement itself is cruel, but the reality is even more chilling. Nowadays, his career is becoming more and more successful, and he is becoming more mature, but he is becoming dull and lacks passion for me. My mood is very complicated, like a spoiled child who suddenly receives a cold treatment, and that cold treatment hurts deeply. In my heart, especially as I grow older, the loss and loneliness in my heart are increasing day by day, and I cannot get rid of it. Married women should learn to be mature. Li Guohua: Male, 38 years old. Company employees often hear complaints from women (including my wife). They all say that after marriage, men’s attitudes towards them have drastically changed. In fact, such complaints seem ridiculous to men. After getting married, the way the two get along and their relationship have undergone qualitative changes, from lovers who meet several times a week to a couple who get along every day and night, and their mentality is also changing. Even if you were madly in love at the beginning, as long as you are not married, you will still be two independent individuals in the eyes of a man. But it is different after you get married. You have become one and become a family. Such two people are together, caring and caring. The same thing exists, but the way of expression changes. Besides, men are sometimes very fragile and also need care and protection. After marriage, men rely more on their families than women. Because having a stable and happy family is the foundation for their career success and the main factor that verifies their success. Since a man marries you, he has given you his highest level of love. Being promoted to a wife is an increase in value. Married women, unlike young girls, should be more mature and connotative. They should not pursue superficial forms, let alone ruin a stable family because of some childish ideas. In my family, my wife will also complain, but I think she is still a mature woman, and she only complains occasionally. As a man, in the face of these complaints, he can only correct some complaints and encourage others. When you talk to me about the price reduction, it feels like you are just psychologically disappointed. Whether or not the price drops mainly depends on your own perspective on the problem. As a woman, there is a lot of happiness after marriage that you cannot experience when you are single. When you encounter problems, you should not attribute it to the fact that you are married. Instead, you should think about whether you have neglected to learn your own self-cultivation and whether you are less motivated. Heart. We must bravely face the trivialities of reality after marriage. Some women feel disappointed after marriage. In fact, it is because their own psychology has changed. They demand more from him and start to get entangled in many details. Moreover, both people change. Both parties have to pretend to be better before marriage, and the same goes for women. It’s just that men are not as delicate as women and are less likely to feel emotionally frustrated. Marriage is also an appreciation of a woman's beauty. I have never thought that women will lack charm just because they are married. I think their most attractive state should be calm and calm. Some "unowned" girls often appear impetuous, while a happily married woman will appear peaceful and natural. If a man puts aside the utilitarianism of becoming a couple, he will still appreciate a married woman. A smart woman should be like this: open your eyes and choose your future partner. If you make the wrong choice, break up immediately. Don’t make do with each other, as that will harm both of you. Learn to take care of your own skin, and dress up elegantly and go out calmly every day. ; Traveling; have the habit of drinking afternoon tea, reading books, and listening to music; buy clothes and accessories that suit you; take your work seriously; make your own scented tea or make snacks in your spare time, play some soft music, and read a few pages Read a good book and then sleep in... Even if such a beautiful woman is married, are you still worried that her price will drop?

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