Sex is indispensable between men and women, and sexual harmony is an important factor related to the relationship between husband and wife. Sex can not only help couples connect emotionally, but also contribute to the physical and mental health of men and women. In fact, many people think that the longer sex is, the better. Is this really the case? Below, the editor will learn about it with everyone.

According to a survey, the most suitable time for substantive love (from the time when sexual organs begin to contact each other) is 7-13 minutes. If the actual love time exceeds 13 minutes, the feeling of fatigue will increase and it will be difficult to recover physical strength; if it is less than 7 minutes, you will feel that you have not finished it.

In reality, some people always have unrealistic "assumptions" about sex. For example, men should have a thick penis, have a strong erection, and have tireless lovemaking all night long. These are all people’s wishful thinking and ‘daydreams’. In addition, the idea that perfect sex requires longer and longer is pure nonsense.

Traditional Chinese medicine believes that the human body and the surrounding environment are an integral whole. Whatever changes occur in nature, the human body will also change accordingly. Therefore, as the natural climate changes, sexual health should also be different. If the climate changes drastically and exceeds the ability of the human body to regulate its functions, the balance of yin and yang will be disrupted and Qi and blood will be reversed. At this time, having sex is not good for the body. If pregnancy occurs at this time, it is not good for both men and women and the baby. On the contrary, a peaceful climate, suitable temperature, comfortable environment, and physical and mental comfort are conducive to sexual intercourse and health preservation.

Winter intercourse and health

Hundreds of insects are dormant, and Yang Qi is trapped and sealed. At this time, people's sexual life should be strictly controlled and the frequency of sexual life should be reduced as much as possible. If you frequently indulge in sexual activities during this season, it will easily lead to weak Qi and kidney deficiency, and you will inevitably get sick.

Talk about foreplay

As the name suggests, foreplay is a game. Falling in love, hugging, caressing, teasing and kissing are indispensable actions before making love, because sex is a psychological, emotional and physical combination of both parties. The important thing is that when lovers are preparing to make love, both parties have entered the state mentally. As simple as walking together, sitting next to each other quietly reading a book or listening to music, holding hands or hugging each other, all of these can instantly build trust between two people, allowing them to melt together in a moment. This teaches us why dates such as eating, dancing, talking and walking are so popular.

I would like to advise all men: Since men’s climax comes faster than women’s, you need to give some time to create an intimate feeling of sex for women. It is important to know that both parties can enjoy sex.

Emotional foreplay

Before sex, both parties must be emotionally prepared. But for some people, after a hard day at work, they can no longer think about sex because they can't detach themselves from what happened during the day, let alone focus on it. Something about being intimate with your lover.

You can help your partner detach from the stress of the day by talking about the day, giving him or her a back rub or massage, or sitting together reading, listening to music, or watching TV .

The point is really to spend time together with your partner in a way that helps build trust and intimacy. This should give you both the relaxation you need to create the elements you need for great sex.

Clock: 5 minutes for men, 15 minutes for women

Men can reach orgasm in no more than five minutes, and sometimes even faster—where maintaining an erection and delaying orgasm requires concentration and skill. For women, it takes about fifteen minutes to reach orgasm. As a result, every time after climax, men leave with satisfaction (or fall asleep), while women feel very disappointed or even cheated.

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To ensure that women's needs are met in a healthy relationship, men must remember to give their partners enough attention and time so that both parties can enjoy sex.

Teenagers spend the most time on foreplay. Teenagers aged 16-20 spend an average of 21.6 minutes on foreplay; those aged 21-24 spend an average of 19.1 minutes on foreplay; and those over 55 spend an average of 21.6 minutes on foreplay. The average is 17.3 minutes.

Britons spend the longest average time on foreplay (22.5 minutes), followed by Germans (22.2 minutes), Irish (21.8 minutes) and Spanish (21.7 minutes).

Thais spent the shortest average time on foreplay (11.5 minutes), followed by Hong Kong Chinese (14.2 minutes) and Vietnamese (15.2 minutes).

Survey finds: Sexual desire is strongest on Friday

Sex is the mediator in people's lives, so during which period of time do humans have the strongest sexual desire? Studies have shown that Friday is the time when sexual desire is strongest. Why is this? Let’s take a look.

The most people have sex on Friday, and Monday is the time when sexual activity is low. The data comes from Tokyo Fun's 2011 sex survey. The survey covered the time period, location, frequency of sexual life of men and women in Tokyo, as well as the identity of their sexual partners. It was found that 56% of people would have sex on Friday, followed by Saturday at 30%, followed by Thursday, Wednesday, Sunday, Tuesday and Monday.

83% of people like to be intimate on rainy or cloudy days. A large-scale survey conducted by a condom company in the United States shows that people are more likely to have a desire for intimacy on rainy days, and their feelings for each other will become closer.

There are twice as many people who refuse to be intimate because of the hot weather as there are people who don't want to be intimate because of the cold. A survey in the United States found that 35% of people have repeatedly refused to be intimate because of the hot weather, while 19% of people have refused to be intimate because of the cold weather.

The frequency of sex will increase after the job becomes stable. Researchers at the University of Lugano in Switzerland found that job instability can lead to low sexual desire, and that sex will be more harmonious for a period of time after the job enters a stable period.

In addition, experts believe that December is the peak pregnancy period every year, and August is the "low" period for pregnancy throughout the year. Research from the University of Texas believes that "from a biological point of view, the reason is that sperm quality is not high in summer, and long days and short nights can affect ovarian function; while December has many holidays and cold weather, and people tend to have more intense sex, making it easier to get pregnant."