On the Internet, I often meet friends who are struggling in the emotional whirlpool. As soon as my QQ is online, netizens will ask me some emotional questions, whether it is about secret love or online dating. On the Internet, you will meet some helpless men and women who are infatuated and wishful thinking. The average age of these people is around 20 years old. It is undeniable that people at this age do not know how to love, it is just a deep liking. But, carefully Think about it, isn’t this age stage the purest emotion in life? The paradox is that it is precisely because of purity that the situation of "you love me, but I love him" appears. People say that feelings cannot be forced. The road of love is inherently a tortuous process, and perhaps everyone has to go through it. Only through the setbacks of love can we mature on the road of love.

I believe that there is no pure friendship between men and women. This kind of relationship is like husband and wife or "lover" at the next step, and it is enemies or passers-by at the next step. Ordinary people cannot grasp the scale of this kind of relationship. I often hear netizens say The other party is so cruel and unfeeling, and the people who say this are either not married, but the other party has transferred their feelings, or the other is married, and the other party is cheating on her. Fortunately, the former What happened to me is a kind of luck, but the latter is a heartbreaking injury. Love is a process of mutual understanding. A marriage without a process can only complete this process in married life. If it goes smoothly, everyone will be happy. If it doesn't go well, there will be an emotional crisis. For rational people, impulse is the devil; for emotional people, the only thing they play with is their heartbeat. Therefore, when it comes to emotional issues between men and women, rational people suffer less external injuries than emotional people, but internal injuries are no less than emotional people.

Many people have heard this sentence: We cannot be friends because we have hurt each other, and we cannot be enemies because we have loved each other. The most familiar stranger, this sentence refers to lovers who once loved deeply but broke up. As deep as the love is, so will the injury. It is very simple to heal this injury. Time can dilute it. When another relationship takes over, it will become a kind of memory, a very beautiful memory, and there will be no more hurt. , even if there is, it is only shallow. In love, no matter who gives up first, they should bless each other and let a beauty exist in each other's hearts. If possible, return to the position of friends. If it is difficult to do, then forget it forever. Unfortunately, the more you want to forget something, the harder it is to forget it. In many cases, whether it is friendship or love, it is more comfortable to let nature take its course than to force it deliberately.

Friendship becomes love when it deepens, and when love lasts for a long time, family affection is integrated into it. Therefore, among two people who break up, at least one person is unwilling and painful. This pain is not given, but imposed. In the news, we often see people who commit suicide after falling out of love. They are basically all girls. How can you not be devastated when you invest all your money in a relationship but end up breaking up? How can we not make people despair? However, looking back and thinking about it, it is obviously a stupid and immature move to exchange the price of life for the disappeared love. Of course, this is only the behavior of a very small number of people. "Life is precious, but love is more valuable" is the status given to love by the ancients. This kind of emotion even surpasses family affection. People will cry bitterly when they lose a loved one, let alone love?

When a relationship reaches a certain level, loving or not loving is the most painful choice. Sometimes, knowing that there is no result, you still love stupidly and foolishly. Human beings have high IQ. Compared with other animals, the emotional intelligence is no different from lower animals, or even lower. Maybe it’s because of the obsession with the authorities. If you look back a few years later, you will feel that you are childish and ridiculous. What are your feelings? Love is actually a kind of happiness that is given without regrets and without asking for anything in return. If we analyze the mentality of the lovelorn when they are in pain according to this explanation, we can only say that these people do not understand what love is at all. If the love is gone, this kind of It's over when you give. To force someone to stay is to ask for something in return. To retain someone with a mentality of repayment is no longer a feeling, and there will be no emotion at all.

To truly love someone, you should not expect anything in return, even if the other person chooses to leave you. When you are in love, love can be selfish. If you still struggle with the other person when they don't love you, this is selfishness. Selfishness is a kind of protection. There is no need to be selfish when it no longer belongs to you. Someone will take over. As long as you don't immerse yourself in the good times spent together day and night, I believe you will soon forget them and keep the memories in the deepest part of your heart. What you lose must be gained. Losing a piece of love and getting a piece of maturity can make you know how to cherish and understand feelings better in the rest of your life. Emotions have a bottom line. Different people will have different destinies in the world of emotions, and sometimes it all depends on man-made efforts. However, when you truly understand emotions, you will not deliberately pick that prickly beautiful flower. , the one without thorns belongs to you.

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