Lovers go on a date, but inadvertently become the "scenery" in other people's lenses. Today, with the development of high technology, all kinds of digital supplies and monitoring equipment with full functions are popular, but they have also become the beginning of nightmares for many people.

With the popularity of public surveillance systems, cameras have been installed in most public places. When passing by Haagen-Dazs cold drink shops and other restaurants, the reporter found that most of the shops were equipped with cameras that could cover the entire store. The store manager can see every move of the couples in the store, but the couples in the store seem to be completely unaware!

Office anti-dating orders mean that white-collar workers no longer have the freedom to fall in love

Nowadays, the "prohibited anti-love order" has become a "hidden rule" for many companies, especially foreign companies. Some companies absolutely do not allow employees in a department to fall in love, while others clearly stipulate that employees in the same company cannot fall in love. In fact, office romances are not only hard to escape the glare of interested people, but the privacy between lovers is often subject to "judgment."

Lili, a newbie in the workplace, graduated from university and came to an IT company. Soon, Lili and her department colleague ERIC developed a mutual affection for each other, and under the pressure of the company's "forbidden love order", they had to start an underground affair. But the paper could not contain the fire, and soon Lili felt the strange eyes of her colleagues. Not only did some gossipy colleagues come to ask about their "progress", but some even said behind her back that she was "scheming", and from time to time someone was talking to her at the coffee table. After dinner, they talked about their relationship. Lili couldn't laugh or cry, and finally had to give up her job.

As for office romance, most white-collar workers believe that it is personal privacy and the company has no right to interfere. A certain website once conducted a survey on "Have you ever had an office romance?". 61.4% of the participants believed that office romance is an individual's freedom and personal privacy, and does not need to be ignored. Only 13.3% of people clearly expressed their opposition.

Before you even meet on a blind date, find out your old story

Before you even meet on a blind date, your height, weight, blood type, job, and even whether you have "poor relatives" from out of town are all known to the other parent at once. .

Originally, there is nothing wrong with asking about the other person’s situation, but now many parents are concerned about more and more content, making some white-collar workers under investigation feel that they have almost no privacy at all.

Ms. Mei works in a foreign company and her salary is quite generous. Not long ago, Ms. Mei was introduced to a man who worked in a bank. The male parents tried their best to inquire about Miss Mei's height and appearance, and even asked about whether the family owned a house and her parents' income from work. What Ms. Mei couldn't accept the most was that the other parent secretly investigated her medical records and even wanted to find out whether she had any "hidden" diseases or physical defects. Miss Mei was very angry when she learned about it, and finally broke up with him on bad terms.

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Privacy becomes a laughing stock after a relationship breaks up

In the Internet age, the Internet is the "matchmaker" when you are in love. After the Internet became the "sinner". Recently, netizen Xiaofeng paid a high "network price" for breaking up.

It is reported that Xiaofeng broke up with his girlfriend due to disagreements. After the breakup, he not only became the "most familiar stranger", but was even "beaten up" by the other party. Because the other party was unwilling and plotting revenge, he kept posting the fact that Xiaofeng had suffered from "hepatitis B" in QQ groups that both parties went to. From then on, netizens who often interacted with Xiaofeng distanced themselves from Xiaofeng and stopped calling him at gatherings.

Netizen Xiaoyao also had the same trouble. After breaking up with her boyfriend, the other party actually sold her privacy as a joke. Xiaoyao once lived with her boyfriend for a while. During this period, her snoring at night gave her boyfriend a headache. He tried to persuade her to go to the hospital for treatment many times, but Xiaoyao always refused because he couldn't put his face down. After the breakup, her ex-boyfriend told her colleagues about her snoring through MSN, QQ, etc., so the matter quickly became a "well-known secret" and scared off a man who planned to pursue Xiaoyao. colleague.

Expert Voice

Sociologist: Emotional privacy has been "trampled", which makes people angry.

Mr. Yu, professor of sociology at Fudan University, said: Just GOOGLE or BAIDU, and thousands of information will pop up.

It seems that if you are not careful, your personal information and photos will be spread all over the Internet. Mr. Hu, a professor of sociology at Fudan University, believes that if personal privacy is exposed, it can easily cause psychological problems for the parties involved. Therefore, a healthy and mature society must take measures to protect personal privacy from infringement. At the same time, the privacy of public figures is different from that of ordinary people. “The privacy of public figures should be distinguished from that of ordinary people, because public figures have a very large influence, and their every move is under the eyes of the people, and they are overly concerned. It’s understandable, but the emotional privacy of white-collar workers has been trampled on in this way, which makes people a little angry.”

Lawyer: Why can’t there be office romance?

Ming. Yi Yu, a lawyer at Tai Law Firm, believes that it is legal for schools, shopping malls, etc. to install cameras as part of the security system in places that require confidentiality, such as financial rooms.

The company's rules prohibiting office romance are illegal. my country's Constitution and Marriage Law both protect the freedom of love and marriage, and others are not allowed to interfere. If you can no longer stay in the company because of this incident, the lawyer suggests that you may seek financial compensation from the company, one month's salary for every year of service, up to 12 months.

As for the behavior of spreading other people’s privacy, lawyer Yi believes that if the other party is indeed spreading maliciously, such behavior can be prosecuted in court under the Civil Law or Criminal Law. In this way, lawsuits involving privacy can be heard in closed doors, and there is no need to worry about making a fuss "publicly known" by going to court.

Psychologist: Social curiosity psychology

“Perhaps it is the ubiquity of social curiosity psychology that causes so many candid photography incidents to occur,” said psychologist Zhou Yu. Although society has entered a period of transformation, the relationship between the sexes is still relatively traditional. Therefore, in today's advanced technology, many people's curiosity can be satisfied, and voyeurism incidents are more common.

“Nowadays, many people secretly take pictures and spy on others, actually with a sense of prank or revenge, which has a lot to do with their personal experience. There are also many people who hype themselves through the Internet, but they are actually doing it for others. Having a low self-esteem is a sign of lack of confidence. These people are often not successful in real life. They have to make up for their weakness in reality through click-through rates and replies in the virtual world. This is why there are so many people online now. Weird post, weird post.”

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