How many members of the opposite sex do people need in their lives? What important role do they (she) play in our lives?

In addition to our fathers and mothers, we need the most in our lives. The most important thing is that there should be several types of opposite sexes. Let’s use a drink with similar attributes to illustrate.

The first category is the opposite sex like water.

Colorless and tasteless, almost banal, most of the time we will even ignore his (or her) existence. They always exist in our lives quietly, without alarm or danger, and silently nourish us and love us.

Their love is also quietly hidden in the trivial details of life, without any legendary or ornamental value. We may even get tired of it and even want to escape from this mediocrity. However, when we leave, it is like removing seemingly mediocre and simple things like water and air from our lives, leaving us standing in the vacuum of the desert or outer space, where even normal breathing and survival become impossible.

At this time, we will miss the colorless, tasteless and almost mediocre people we dreamed of escaping from, and the peaceful life they brought us. Usually this person is our spouse. He or she is always like water, and only feels indispensable when he or she is lost.

The second category is the opposite sex like wine.

Although the texture is as clear and calm as water, it contains huge heat energy and passion, which can make us uncontrollably fall into impulse and madness. Under their instigation and temptation, we I can't help myself and do many things that I would never dare to think about.

To a certain extent, they are like catalysts, causing certain desires hidden in our hearts to break free and burst out. They always use our bodies as firewood, burning endlessly and without restraint, making us unable to control ourselves and unable to stop.

Everyone who has ever drank alcohol knows that with a sip and a light taste, the aroma that is full of fragrance slides coldly into the stomach and slowly rises in the body. Therefore, it becomes light and ethereal...

But most people will not stop at this time. They will continue to refill their drinks, amplifying the pleasure to a crazy and distorted level. They even mistakenly believe that the pleasure they get is proportional to the amount of alcohol they drink. Most of the facts show that this judgment is wrong. Many people will lose their temper and vomit or even do ridiculous things that they will regret too late, causing harm to their lives.

Usually, this type of opposite sex is our lover or lover, they stimulate our desire and use it to make us happy or sad.

The third category is the opposite sex like coffee.

There is some bitterness hidden in the deep color, and then mixed with milk and sugar, it becomes a complex taste that is difficult to describe. Its characteristics are opposite to those of wine. It always wakes us up and cheers us up when we are tired and depressed.

This kind of opposite sex is our close friend, commonly known as the beauties or blue-faced confidants. Such people of the opposite sex are usually deeper than friendship and shallower than love. We are like brothers or sisters. We can share secrets that are kept secret with each other. When we encounter problems in life, we always want to send a text message or call them to tell them immediately. Telling does not necessarily mean finding the answer. Sometimes, Telling is actually the answer itself.

For most people, coffee is not a necessity of life, but it is an element that improves the quality of life. Just like those friends of the opposite sex in our lives, they look at each other but keep a distance, and are unintentionally close and indifferent. It is not as formal and solemn as marriage, nor as passionate and persistent as love.

It is just a cup of coffee, a supplement to a good life. Someone is tempted by its appearance and tries to break this pattern. The situation is like knocking over a coffee cup, making the tabletop messy and unsightly.

In a lifetime, we actually need three (or three types) of opposite sexes, and they fill our lives. But unlike water, wine and coffee, these things can be transformed or even interchanged.

If wine is stored for a long time, it will change its taste and become water; coffee may turn into wine inadvertently, and its highest state is the Trinity. In the same person, we find three things we want. Although this is difficult, it is not impossible.

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