Men believe that only when a woman is willing to go to bed with him does it mean that the woman truly loves him. Women usually think that by handing themselves over, they will quickly lock in the target man. The more a woman clings to a man, the more she uses her body as a weapon. Therefore, the more a woman loves the other person, the faster she is likely to go to bed with him, and the control is always in the woman's hands. However, the sexual initiative in the future often returns to the man.

So, what is the reasonable standard for having sex on a date?

I went to bed for the first time, and I was afraid that everyone knew it was a joke.

Going to bed only for the second time is undoubtedly a little faster, but it may be that I can't wait.

But after a man confirms his identity as a couple, I believe he will only wait a month at most. Of course, this does not mean:

If you don’t go to bed with your boyfriend after a month, he will leave you or hate you. A good man will respect you, but all I want to say is: just because he doesn't propose it doesn't mean he doesn't want to. One month is more about psychological preparation than physical needs. That is to say, when two people start dating, one month is a normal running-in period. If they find something that they can't get along with, most people break up within this time limit. To avoid dragging it down, your feet will get stuck in the mud and get hurt more seriously. When both sides have the confidence to come together, things will happen naturally.

There is no standard or timetable for this kind of thing. But one month is a reasonable summary. It’s not like we don’t regard sex as sacred. They will agree not to have sex during the dating to marriage stage. Let’s save sex for the most important moment (the actual wedding). The more I look forward to it, the more beautiful it becomes.

This, although I personally feel very curious about it: to store up a surge of momentum, and then explode it all at once - although I am not expecting this kind of delayed climax, at the same time I am not without blessings. As long as the clouds clear and the moon shines, it is unknown whether the climax will be doubled by then, but such careful consideration will indeed allow a woman to get married.

How long does it take to "go to bed" after knowing each other?

Here is a Chinese Internet survey report:

Survey items: "How long did it take for you to go to bed with him/her after knowing each other? (In terms of the shortest time)"

(A total of 12,506 people participated)

14.99% 1 month

14.24% 3 months

13.64% After confirming the marriage relationship

12.51% depending on the environment and situation

11.59% for half a year

09.70% for 1 week

08.80% depends on different objects

06.81% 1 year

04.38% 1 day

03.32% 1 hour

Slightly unexpected, choose "1 hour" or " Those who can go to bed within one day only accounted for 3.32% and 4.38% respectively, both ranking last. It seems that the "one-night stand" that is recited in many petty bourgeoisie texts is not as common as imagined. Don’t ask for names, there are stories of “breaking up after dawn”, but there are more people who yearn for it than practice it. In this era of convenient information, the sexual immorality of those literate and pretentious bourgeoisie seems to have become the mainstream. Therefore, in common judgments, one-night stands in the city are often regarded as evidence of the collapse of etiquette and the collapse of music. Many people have begun to not mind their one-night stands and are ashamed to mention that they do not have one-night stands. From this investigation, the above conclusion is just an illusion.

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