A female reader friend told her emotional story. She said that she and her boyfriend had known each other for many years and lived in two different cities. Her boyfriend once made a promise to her in tears: No matter how much lovesickness she endures, he will wait for her. But he didn't persist, and after waiting for her for less than two years, he got married. "Seriously, if he can insist on waiting for a while, maybe we can be together!!!" This reader friend left several huge exclamation marks at the end of the email. The exclamation point is like a heavy trumpet, telling the emotional journey of the protagonist.

I can read the sadness and pain buried deep in her heart in her narration. It was just a question that this reader friend asked me at the end, which I found difficult to answer. She asked: "How long do you think a man can wait for a woman?" How long can he wait for the one he loves? This is not only a torture for men, but also a difficult choice for women.

How long can you wait for someone?

This is indeed a difficult question to answer. Because any answer to this question may be a promise, a vow, or it may be perfunctory, a cruel excuse and a beautiful pretext for breaking up. In the era of love fast food, as long as you are willing to give up a false oath and promise, you can get a cheap love. Love is easy to come by, but waiting is difficult. No one can wait for whom for how long, and no one has enough confidence and confidence. In fact, today, when love has become a thing of the past and new love is on the agenda, it is common for things to be forgotten in the blink of an eye and become strangers after turning around. Not much love can withstand a long wait, and not many people are willing to wait.

An interesting phenomenon is that when it comes to how long you can wait for someone, men are the most eloquent in saying it, and women are the most successful in doing it. Men are sentimental and even more ruthless, this has been the case since ancient times. The romantic and talented Yuan Zhen wrote an eternal love poem when his wife Wei Congxiang passed away, "It used to be difficult to make water, except for Wushan, it's not clouds", which moved many men and women in the world to tears. However, half a year after the death of his wife Wei Cong, Yuan Zhen married another wife, two. With tears still lingering over the death of his wife, and solemn vows still ringing in his ears, Yuan Zhen once again proved with practical actions that what a man says is better than what he sings. No wonder women say that if a man is reliable, a pig can climb a tree.

Despite this, I still believe that the emotions emanating from a man’s upper body are often a true reflection of his heart. It’s just sad that not many men can withstand the temptation of the lower body. This is true for romantic talents and ordinary men. Nor is it exempt from vulgarity. Men like to say I love you to women before going to bed, but women always say I love you to men after going to bed. Before going to bed, whether he loves her or not, a man will give a woman sweet words; and when a woman says I love you, it must come from the true feeling in her heart, and it has nothing to do with whether she goes to bed or not. This is the biggest difference in how men and women treat love. Men's lovemaking may have nothing to do with love, but women's lovemaking must involve true love.

In real life, we often hear men say to women: "I am willing to wait for you forever." This is a very lethal promise to women. Many women are often attracted by this ethereal promise of men. , I was so moved. What many women don't expect is that a man's words "I am willing to wait for you forever" will turn into a kind of hurt and a painful memory many years later, no matter which woman is left behind. In fact, many vows and promises will turn into a kind of hurt after the love ends.

A man will stay for a woman for a night, and a woman will stay for a man for a lifetime. What's interesting is that men can't wait, but they often say "wait for you forever"; women can't wait, but wait all their lives. Countless current events prove that a man's waiting is just an appearance, sometimes just to impress a woman, without much practical significance, just like a man's vows, which are beautiful but will not bring real happiness to women. A woman's waiting is infatuation, a tragic interpretation of a man's vow. Many times, what she is waiting for is just a dream, beautiful and lonely. Many men even say they will wait for you forever, but sometimes it is just a true lie when leaving, a beautiful saying when breaking up.

When a man is infatuated, he hurts a woman; when a woman is infatuated, she hurts herself. Therefore, in the world of emotions, a smart woman does not need to take the "waiting for you forever" promised by a man seriously and be moved to tears. In fact, the man himself does not know how far he can go or how long he can wait. The mountains have no edges, the rivers are exhausted, there are thunders in the winter, rain and snow in the summer, and the heaven and the earth are united, I dare to be with you. Sometimes, love just loses to life and death, time, and desire.

I once read Jin Yong's "The Legend of the Condor Heroes" late at night, and sighed for the life-and-death love between Yang Guo and Xiao Longnu. "Sixteen years later, we will meet again here. The love between husband and wife is deep. Don't break your promise." Yang Guo, the most passionate person in the world, kept the love promise left by Xiao Longnu on the mountain wall of Jueqing Valley. He waited for sixteen years and became infatuated. to not fix. Unfortunately, although the beautiful story of 16 years of infatuated waiting is touching, it has to be said that it is just a joke. In real life, not to mention the long wait of 16 years, even 16 months is enough to destroy many faithful love vows and shatter many beautiful love expectations.

True love needs to wait, but waiting too long is a kind of destruction to love. The long life, the rolling world of mortals, the flowers are similar every year, but the people are different every year. If you can't wait in this life, stop looking to the next life. Once you cross the bridge, you become a stranger again. Therefore, cherish meeting each other, cherish loving each other, cherish possessions, and cherish the people around you. After all, no one can withstand the changes of time, and no one can wait until the next life to love again.

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