I have had dozens of boyfriends and girlfriends, but I don’t know which one loves me the most; I have changed jobs again and again, but I don’t know which one I like the most and which one I am best at; cities and The residences have been changed one after another, but I don’t know where I want to go back to and where my real home is... There is only one person’s loneliness

They are the new generation of urban white-collar workers, leading the The trend, but also being coerced by the trend, frequently changes the colors of the seasons over the city, flapping the wings of freedom and loneliness. They are an enviable group, with high income and low job stability. They are open, free, and mysterious. They frequently change jobs and friends of the opposite sex, and they always seem to be singles who stand out from the crowd. noble. They almost fanatically pursue excitement, happiness and success. What kind of faces and hearts are reflected in the ambiguous city lights? In March of early spring, a face full of excitement and fatigue cannot hide the vicissitudes of life.

“Why not get married?”

“It’s better not to get married. Tell the other party clearly that you don’t plan to get married, and there is no one in the family you can live up to. You don’t have to have moral integrity. ***, you don’t need to owe anyone a debt.” The person I was talking to was actually not too young anymore. He was in his thirties, which is the most attractive age for men. This is really an eye-catching group of people, free and open but sincere, not quibbling, not hypocritical, not even rejecting "one-night stands", charming because of their willfulness and a certain degree of success, and not having to betray others because of their frankness and sincerity. Put the shackles on the soul.

But I want to say that the rich life of leaning on the red and green trees with the feasting and feasting cannot hide the loneliness and loneliness in their hearts; behind the frequent friendships, there is the alienation and separation between people that cannot be integrated into the soul. The faces passing by in the subway are, in the final analysis, just bright but fragile peach blossoms; on the road of constant pursuit of high salary and frequent job changes, they are increasingly losing their original direction; On the journey towards success step by step, happiness may become further and further away and become more and more uncertain.

All of this is probably just because we care too much about success! In the pursuit of success, we forget our original happiness and success, and at the same time we forget our responsibilities and obligations. They often say: The pressure at work is too great and they dare not start a family or have children. In fact, this is exactly their excuse to evade responsibility. Because for most ordinary people, they are already successful people. But they themselves are among successful people, so they have to constantly chase greater success.

Indeed, they may be very busy, but it is precisely because they are reluctant to leave some time for themselves, their parents, children, and the people they love, that they become more tired and busier. Their roads only have speed and no scenery. The heterosexual fast food and cultural fast food they enjoy are, in the final analysis, just to awaken the passion of work and life. Because they are too tired, they have lost their perception of life, their sensitivity to happiness, and their easy grasp of their own abilities and hobbies. Each of us has experienced tremendous changes in these years. Some people have become prosperous and live a very nourishing life, while others have stagnated and lived a dull life, but their inner world is completely different.

So, latecomers who try to follow their example should think clearly: inner peace and authentic pursuit may be more important than worldly success. Since neither happiness nor happiness is based on success. Success is just the result, happiness is the process. This world is always like this. In addition to envying each other, we still envy each other - we never cherish what we have; only what we lack is the best. Life is short, how long is the future?

More importantly, a person truly looks tall and beautiful when he bravely takes on responsibilities. At no time should we forget our responsibilities and obligations to our families. Age is insurmountable. You should study hard when you are old enough to study, and get married and have children when you are old enough. Time is the most ruthless knife. We should neither predict the future nor push our responsibilities back continuously - that means never taking responsibility. In this way, you will eventually regret it because you are ashamed of your parents and family.

Also, no matter what time, only a few can succeed. Once your youth has passed and your success is no longer yours, you will be able to regain the love, family and happiness you threw away in the past. Why pick it up? The ancients said "to establish a family and a career", not "to establish a career and a family". There must be some profound truth in it that even modern white-collar workers cannot understand!

When will the new generation of white-collar workers find their true destination in the city? ! Perhaps if you understand the truth, you will no longer be able to wander in a complicated space alone.

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