Girl abortion is no longer news today, but in recent years this population has grown at an alarming rate, so much so that special rescue centers have been set up across the country to help them perform the surgery. It all happens so fast that we don't even have enough time to understand the reasons behind it. How do these children, whose bodies have grown up but are not yet teenagers, think about sex, emotions and their own bodies?

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Lulu: “Curiosity” led to her first abortion at the age of 13

Lulu, 16, was born in a single-parent family. Growing up with my mother and grandmother, I had three abortions.

Lulu said that her first sexual experience was purely out of curiosity. She was 14 years old that year, and the two broke up. Lulu said that she never looked for him again. When she saw him, "I felt disgusting and very dirty. I felt that I couldn't face him. I felt very embarrassed and shy." She said that her first time It had not been carefully considered before, it was completely sudden. "He also did it without my consent. When he understood what was going on, the first thing he felt was that it couldn't be done. He said N times no, and then it was okay. It was really like that. It was always curiosity."

Lulu said that the first time was completely different from her original imagination. There was no trace of tenderness, and it was just to meet the man's physiological needs.

At the time, 13-year-old Lulu did not realize the consequences of this attempt. She found that she could eat 6 pounds of tomatoes a day and then vomit after eating. Regarding such an abnormal body reaction, she only thought that the sweet and sour tomatoes were delicious. When she vomited, she thought she might have a cold, and she did not think about pregnancy at all. Until one day, Lulu's mother discovered something strange about her daughter. Despite repeated inquiries from her mother, Lulu still gritted her teeth and refused to tell the truth. However, the changes in her body could not hide it. She became fatter and fatter, could eat more and more, and would vomit after eating.

In this way, 13-year-old Lulu had her first abortion experience. She wrote in her diary: This is a past that I don’t want to recall. What woke me up when I dreamed about it at midnight was the pain of the iron tool entering my body. But in less than a year, Lulu dated several more boyfriends and had an abortion.

Since she already regretted it, why did she do it again? She said that she was giving up on herself. When she found out she was pregnant for the third time, she kept it secret for half a year because she was afraid of heavy responsibility from her family. When she came to the Changchun Girls Rescue Center, the child was already six and a half months old. At that time, deputy director Wang Jiqiang of the rescue center received her.

Different from the previous two miscarriages, the fetus was already basically formed and labor could only be induced. Lulu said that she had killed her child's right to live. Pregnancy means happiness for an adult woman with a happy family. But for a 16-year-old girl, it is a kind of happiness that is unaffordable and a kind of happiness that cannot be afforded.

Story 2

Xiao Qing: Being attracted to a boy who was fighting was the "first time"

Xiao Qing, 16 years old, a key high school student, dropped out of school and had an abortion because of a boy.

In Xiaoqing’s opinion, what attracted her most to that boy at that time was that he was very impressive in fights in school and could sometimes make the teacher very angry, which made her feel that this boy was “really awesome”. Before dropping out of school, Xiaoqing's grades were very good and she was the seed candidate to apply for Tsinghua University and Peking University. Xiaoqing's mother only earns 300 yuan per month from her part-time job and lives in extreme poverty. Her only hope is for her daughter to go to college.

But after meeting that boy, Xiaoqing felt that being with him was more important than anything else in the world. After the boy dropped out of school because of poor grades, he encouraged Xiaoqing to go out to work with him. Xiaoqing felt that he had the kind of care she needed, and he cared about him all the time, which was very good to her. For the love in her heart, Xiaoqing chose to leave school and live with him.

Xiao Qing said that she was struggling before her "first time". She felt embarrassed and didn't want him to touch her, but the boy's repeated requests made Xiao Qing give up and say "no". The first time happened to Xiao Qing. Qing said it was not because of her own desires. She said that what she felt at the time was pain rather than happiness. But why do you continue to let things happen? Xiaoqing said, "It should be for him. He said he is happy." The real day-to-day interaction and the hardship of working life made Xiaoqing gradually wake up from the dream of a young girl who had just begun to fall in love. However, at this time, she found out through a test strip that she was pregnant.

Xiao Qing said that her reaction at the time was that she was already sitting on the ground. Although she had some mental preparation before, when these things really happened, she felt as if the sky had fallen. . Because she had already thought clearly at that time that that boy could not be the destination of her life, it was just a short-term illusion brought to her by his kindness to her. Without telling her boyfriend, Xiaoqing left the place where she lived with him and returned to Changchun, back to her mother. From then on, the two never saw each other again, and they broke up completely.

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