“It’s harder for a woman to meet Prince Charming on the street at the age of 30 than to meet an atomic bomb on the street.” This “no” woman is a bit different. She is 30 years old, and she has no beauty or beauty. She has a figure, no money, no boyfriend, and is as confused as a child about the dangers of the world. What she hopes most is to meet a man who loves her and get married. In fact, just like the popular European and American "BJ Single Diary", there are many such women around us. She is our most popular topic queen recently: Kim Sam Soon!

A Korean drama "My Name is Kim Sam-soon" that is popular throughout Asia has become popular from summer to late autumn. Now the most invincible keywords are no girl + moldy girl! Jin Sanshun's love has made many "un" girls see the dawn of love.

I lost my Mr. Right

Jin Sanshun No. 1

Xiaoye, 31 years old, clerk, unmarried

"I am I accidentally saw this TV series on the Internet. Kim Sam-soon’s life is so real, which is the most touching thing about this TV series.”

I also belong to the category of “no girls”. When meeting the person I like, I always pay special attention to whether my behavior is elegant and whether I am the type he likes... I think that only in that way can I be favored by love, completely forgetting that all disguises will be stripped away at some point. Because of this, I always feel self-conscious in front of him. For example, I don't dare to make a sound while eating, and I don't wear sexy clothes (because of my poor figure). But no one likes a pretentious person, so I also lost many relationships. I understand that I have passed the dreaming season, and now I just want to find someone to spend this life with.

Comments: Expressing yourself truly will make you understand how cute you can be. In fact, there will be people who appreciate every scenery. People who don’t know how to appreciate you will never be your Mr. Right. You have to be informal in front of him. Maybe it's this kind of frankness that makes Mr. RiSht fall in love with you.

I once risked my life

Jin Sanshun No. 2

Xiao Xi, 30 years old, shop assistant, unmarried

"After watching "I "My name is Jin Sanshun", I found that Jin Sanshun has a lot of my shadow."

Seeing Sanshun's serious love, it seemed like I was seeing my past self. I used to be desperate for love. Like Jin Sanshun, I am also "girlless", but now I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 5 years. Our relationship has always been relatively flat. Even dating is light and we keep a certain distance from him. Maybe I have my own reservations, and I always feel that I don’t have much passion at this age. After watching this TV series, I began to cherish the people around me, especially him. I began to think about our future. He was surprised by my changes and treated me better. I used to be very indifferent to him, but now I have to work hard. To love him so that our love can blossom and bear fruit.

Comments: Passion gradually diminishes with age. This is the thought of many "Jin Sanshun" people. There is bitterness and sweetness in life. God does not give you more happiness because you are beautiful, nor does it mean you are buried in pain because you are too inconspicuous. Only by living your own color can you live your own taste.

What exactly is love?

Jin Sanshun No. 3

Xiao Min, 29 years old, salesperson, divorced

“I only watched this Korean drama through a friend’s introduction. I just watched it disapprovingly, but I didn’t expect that after watching two episodes, I couldn’t help myself. Many of Kim Sam-soon’s ideas resonated with me.”

I am not too young, and I have had a failed marriage. , the failure of that marriage hit me hard, and I was depressed for a long time. I stayed at home all day long, drinking and smoking. In the end, I came out. After experiencing that marriage, I matured a lot. Jin Sanshun was also hurt by love, but she was still persistent in love, so I admire her very much. After going through so much, I don’t have the expectations I had before getting married about love. I don’t know where my love lies. I’m too young to say the least, and it’s not easy to find another love.

Comments: This is the voice of many divorced "Jin Sanshun" people. They have experienced many loves, but still have not waited for the arrival of true love. Because they themselves don’t know what kind of love they need, they lose opportunities while waiting again and again. In fact, as long as you open your heart and face yourself, don't let love carry a heavy burden. Love is actually very simple.

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Learn to be the four types of "Jin Sanshun"

Jin Sanshun has almost all the virtues of an excellent woman except beauty, and learns to be able to do it with ease If you do the following four types of "Golden Sanshun", you may catch a "white horse" on the street one day -

The cute little mother type is caring, tolerant and likes children

Sanshun uses his motherly love from the bottom of his heart to Zhenxian's niece, Meizhou, to warm the little heart that was once horribly frightened.

When meeting a strange man, he will pretend to be young and cute. When meeting a young man, he will also fantasize about doing a sexy dance to tease him, and he may even feel that he is 10 years younger. All are acceptable.

Beware: Care OCD. Don't let a man always say: "She did so much because she loved me." Loving someone is not about being his personal nanny. It is best for people with obsessive-compulsive disorder to put themselves in someone else's shoes and think about whether it is painful or happy to be surrounded by a nanny-type relative 24 hours a day.

A well-behaved woman who is filial, dedicated, and knows how to respect others

Sanshun is willing to go against her will for the sake of the real estate that her dear father has spent her entire life earning, and to reassure her mother. Signed a love contract with Zhenxian and endured humiliation. As long as a person is worthy of respect, even if he is a love rival, he will not be insulted for personal reasons. Such frank use of affection is also an important reason for winning the favor of Zhenxian.

Beware: Innocent doormats. Learn to say "NO". Blindly unprincipled tolerance will not make him love you more. Learn to let him do things for you and let him bear the responsibilities that a boyfriend should bear.

A highly short-sighted, silly older lady with a confused personality, a little bit of jealousy but very kind-hearted

Although she entered the wrong men's room, she still had the courage to say sorry to the men inside because she was left behind when trying on clothes. Bra straps, she likes to shrink her head and giggle. The only technical requirement for her lover is "better at kissing". She peeks at every text message sent by her boyfriend to look for clues about other women.

Beware: love rabies. Cool down first and then fall in love. After you meet the person who makes your heart beat, calm yourself down before taking action. You must know how to identify the heart beneath the beautiful appearance, because loving him is not just for a while, but for a lifetime.

The Little Eagle type is self-respecting, tolerant, and will never be humbled by any man just because he is not beautiful.

I am not beautiful, but I have dignity. Even the expression of love from her ex-boyfriend could not sway Sanshun. He was so tolerant that he risked the rekindling of the old relationship between Zhenxian and Xizhen and let Zhenxian accompany Xizhen back to the United States. It took two or three months. Waiting for a strange combination of circumstances.

Beware: Cold Barbie Syndrome. Don’t be a well-behaved Barbie doll who looks strong and proud, but is actually vulnerable and can easily be used as a solace by immature men to make up for the emptiness.

When God shaped men, he gave them too much restlessness and uneasiness, making them always seek innovation and change in different ways. Therefore, a man's "love heart" is deeply integrated into his blood and cannot be changed. Women all hope that their men will not be bothered, but this is not realistic. So how do women understand when they are bothered?

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Understanding 1: Specious “good” men

Do playboys love themselves like pets? I don’t think there are any good men among love-minded men...

The program "Love" was just broadcast on TV over the weekend. This issue is about a young female college student who meets Prince Charming. Not only was he handsome, but he was also caring and considerate towards her. He gave her a rose every day and took her on a trip every holiday; he let her live in a beautiful apartment and bought her expensive clothes; he was madly anxious when she was sick and childlike when she recovered. She was so happy... No one doubted his love for her, until one day, she saw him winning an extra-large gift for his son at the carnival, with his dignified and beautiful wife beside him!

When she was about to walk away, he arrived. She confessed, cried, beat her head, and knelt down. It took less than half an hour for her to relent. "He is a good man!" She still felt this way. The distressed sister couldn't bear that her sister was deceived like this. After repeated attempts to persuade her to no avail, she asked everyone for help. Let's hear what the experts think of this "good man". The psychological expert said: "He said that he only has responsibility for his wife, and love for you, but what is his responsibility to his wife based on? On what basis did they get married? Isn't it just love? A man can actually remove responsibility from love. What kind of love does a detached person have? "The love expert said: "You have to distinguish what possession is and what love is. Pets are also cared for, but that is not love!" The female expert said: "He comes to ask you, It's because he knows you won't leave. Both soft and hard tactics are for those who fall into this trap. Only when you are completely independent and no longer rely on him can you see the true nature. "... People who have been commented on by experts, you said, He is a good man, isn't he?

Women who are in love usually cannot listen to any truth. They can only use these living examples to tell them: There are no good men in "Flower Carrot"!

Understanding 2: Miracles are hard to happen

It is hard to fall in love with a philandering man...

When I first graduated and just entered the society, I was young. I have full confidence and longing for love. I once imagined that every relationship would have a fairy tale ending, and in the end both the prince and the princess would live a happy life.

I am not a princess. I am average-looking, but I am confident in my youth and personal charm. I think that life is the same as described in the novel. Even a love-minded young man will stay for the woman in his life. .

I joined an import and export company after graduation.

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