How can long-distance love last longer?
1. Make sure the communication between each other is smooth
The two most afraid of anger and misunderstanding between the two places. Prolonged anger and misunderstanding will make the relationship between the two people indifferent, and may even lead to poaching. Those who take advantage of the situation should make everything clear. After all, you should be rational. If you should admit your mistakes, admit them. Of course, if no one is willing to bow your head, boys should not give priority to women at this time.
When you are angry, you tell him (her) what specific points he (she) did not do well, and you don’t like this approach. I think if he realizes it, he will definitely restrain himself next time, because it is his own fault. A woman’s needs; but if you say that you no longer have confidence in the love between two people, or say, “I don’t care about you, you don’t care about me anymore”, “I don’t know if I will like others again”, “Who do you think you are?” How did I find you like this?" I think it's really too much.
Once or twice, these words may still achieve the purpose of making you angry at your boyfriend; but you must know that even if a man feels uncomfortable, even if he will be sad and shed tears, he is most likely suppressing his feelings. He has been disappointed for too many times, and when he turns this disappointment into despair, it really becomes a matter of one sentence whether to break up or not. ——Not his suddenness, but his outburst.
So I advise you who are in a long-distance relationship to know what angry words are and what words that destroy confidence!
If two people are aboveboard, it is best to take the initiative to tell each other what they are doing. What and where. In this way, both parties will have peace of mind. And if you form a habit in this way, the possibility of being poached will be greatly reduced.
Confidant: Xiaoyuan Age: 23 years old
My boyfriend and I are also separated. We have known each other for three years, but we have only been friends for four months. I feel like he is a very manly person.
But now that we are together, I have discovered that when he was childish, he was not like other people who would love others, would care about you considerately and say some nice words to you, because he felt that no matter how nice he said it, It's not as good as doing well.
2. You must trust each other and believe that you can be together.
Even if you are separated, you must let your faith and belief support you. Constant confusion and lack of confidence in the future will shake your relationship. Arguments caused by minor conflicts may also become the trigger for breakup.
Love means trust. After all, they are in a different place, so it is impossible to see every word and deed every day. Mo Ming's suspicion will ruin the sweetness between the two of them.
In everything you do, you must first consider the bottom line to prevent yourself from being caught off guard when encountering sudden changes. Things must always be done in the right direction, but you must be prepared for the bad.
Temporary separation will inevitably require two people to wait, but waiting is not scary. The scary thing is not knowing what result you are waiting for.
This is the duty of belief and confidence: think about your woman from time to time to express this confidence and belief, and let her know that although you are not together now, you have been working hard and trying to achieve yourself; Work hard for your happy life in the future.
Only two people who firmly believe in their love can be qualified to talk about anything right or wrong.
So, at any time, no matter who the two people are, they must have this understanding clearly.
When you no longer have any longing for your love, and even have a wait-and-see attitude, it can only be said to be your sorrow.
Of course, if you still think this way now, then stop reading my posts. I despise people with this attitude.
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3. Use text messages, phone calls, and the Internet to maintain the most timely contact
Losing contact and being unable to timely Communication will make the other person feel unfamiliar, and the timely arrival of text messages, phone calls, and the Internet can help you feel the feeling of having your lover by your side virtually.
Maintain a certain frequency of meetings, preferably once every few months. The pain of lovesickness also needs to be released. A few days of sweetness can make up for the lovesickness of the past few months.
If you want to call her (or send a text message), then do it. Conveying your thoughts and thoughts in time will make your love sweeter; but remember: if you call her twice in a row, If you don’t answer the phone (or just hang up) or the text message goes unanswered, you must have turned from sweet to anxious (even a little angry), but no matter how anxious (angry) you are, don’t call (send) again, feel at ease (try to) Do your thing and she will call you when she sees the phone.
But on the other hand, if your girlfriend calls you (or sends a text message), no matter how inconvenient it is, as long as the phone is by your side, try to at least give her a text message so as not to make her anxious. Don't ask why, because we are men and because we love our girlfriends.
It must be admitted that when anyone wants to call (send text messages) with their lover, they want to get an immediate response; but in a long-distance relationship, you cannot see each other, so you can only treat this invisible barriers are replaced with trust. If she doesn't return your call, it must be inconvenient for her. You have to get used to this idea.
Confidant: Masako Age: 24 years old
My boyfriend and I also live in two places, and our usual contact is QQ, phone calls, and text messages. Many friends say they envy me for being like this, no one cares about me.
Maybe! I’m afraid that two people will quarrel if they are together every day.
Maybe my meeting with him was relatively normal and I didn’t feel the crisis yet. But he is not around, and without his text messages and phone calls, I always feel uneasy!
The more you fall in love, the more you care, or in other words, feeling uneasy and trusting each other are not mutually exclusive. contradiction. Keep in touch and find some activities to adjust appropriately to keep love fresh.
4. The same passion remains when two places are separated
A short separation is better than a newlywed. The brief reunion after the two places are separated will definitely make each other's love for each other long. In addition to this, there are many more now. Fresh stuff can also increase the quality of a long-distance relationship.
In your spare time, do whatever you want to surprise your baby.
This surprise is not all expressed in money, because there are many people like me whose hearts are richer than money.
For example, send a small card online; give her a romantic game to play if you have nothing to do...etc.
Don’t think that these are superfluous and insignificant. You must know that your baby is in a different place. It is inevitable that you will be in love with a man and a woman in front of you. You can’t accompany her at this moment. Do you want to save even these trivial love signals? Have you gone?
Perhaps these things may seem like small actions at the time, but if a person recalls it in the future, its aftertaste will be far greater than itself.
Resolutely avoid "Hey, what are you doing? Have you eaten? Is there anything wrong? What, it's okay, then I'll hang up if it's okay...", halo, we are two places apart, we can't hold hands, Can't hug, can't solve any practical problems, okay, then let's let our emotions soothe each other, maybe it's a lot of nonsense, but it is these nonsense that make the two of them think about each other, understanding, tolerance, and deep love are all caused by Here it comes!
If either party thinks that they are very busy, do not have much time, and do not have so many topics, then the long-term pain is worse than the short-term pain, so let’s break up!
There are twenty-four hours in a day. Can’t you spare even one hour to get along with the person you love and who loves you? You will miss her and think of your heart full of sweetness, and you will miss him and think that you will be in a daze. You don’t have to care about what you say. You care. It’s the ones who listen attentively, the ones who whisper...
I have always believed that boys and girls who can fall in love in long-distance are both brave and courageous: but in the eyes of family members or pragmatic friends, they are just a It’s silly and bold, just a daydream, haha!
But if this world were all pragmatic people, there wouldn’t be so many deep-seated lovesickness, so much lingering sadness, and so many unforgettable moments. Water story! Liu Yonghui held hands and looked at each other with tears in his eyes, Li Qingzhao was speechless and went up to the west building alone!
We are the scenery of love at the station, we are lovers who cannot be reached on both sides of the phone, we are In many stories, we are the protagonists who look far away, but we stubbornly hold on to the innocence in our hearts...
Hate is like a chain, love is like flowing water, we need to connect, every day, every day! Danxincuncun I mean, you don’t know, this is our biggest enemy!
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