Looking at the girlfriends around me, one person is particularly lucky: she can rise all the way up, she cheated a diamond king early, she is always loved by everyone, and what about you? But extremely bleak. Do you often feel anxious about this? In fact, every day can be a golden starting point, or it can be a journey to hell. It all depends on whether you can adjust your senses, mind, and life trajectory. Becoming a lucky girl is no harder than getting a driver's license.

The first lesson is: respect others.

Foyin and Su Dongpo often practice Zen meditation. Once, after coming out of meditation, Dongpo said that during his meditation, he saw that the Buddha's seal was yellow cow dung (the color of this object was similar to that of the monks' daily clothes). Foyin said that Dongpo was the Buddha who allowed him to understand his mind and nature. Dongpo was very happy, but he didn't know that it was just his words that won.

Because the state of meditation is what you see in your eyes, what you think in your heart, and the natural bloom of your nature.

It is true that if you treat others as excrement, they will never treat you as a god.

The second lesson is: love yourself.

The core idea of ​​Wu Danru's inspirational new book "Being a Good Destiny Girl" is: There is a secret to creating a good destiny, that is, if you are good to yourself, you will have good luck.

Being kind to yourself, the first rule is to be happy.

Competing with others makes you happy, then you should try your best. If simplicity, tranquility and peace make you feel at ease, then you should keep it and not let the outside world change it.

Loving yourself does not mean pampering yourself, nor is it selfish. (Both of these violate Lesson 1.) Loving yourself means recognizing yourself, educating and nurturing yourself.

The US "Newsweek" selected 20 outstanding women leading the new generation of the United States, and summarized ten rules based on their experiences: love competition, don't just care about friendship, safeguard your own interests, trust your own instincts, and always Show confidence, acknowledge your accomplishments, ask other women for advice, stick to your own salary, correct mistakes when they’re wrong, and be a problem-solver.

If you can follow half of these ten rules, anyone can become a lucky woman.

The third lesson: Insight into life.

My friend Garfield Cat is a long-time Garfield fan. He most appreciated a conversation between Garfield and his master - Jon: Garfield, I love you very much. Garfield: Me too, I love myself too.

Analyze Garfield's words: "Me too" is imitating the master, and imitation is the greatest respect for others. (Scientists who study body language argue that subordinates who imitate their supervisors are most likely to be promoted.) "I also love myself very much." Apparently Garfield has completed two lessons of good luck, and in the third lesson, it did even better - —Garfield and his puppy got lost once and were kept in an animal shelter for a few days. After Jon was depressed at home for a few days, he came to the pet store and saw them. He was overjoyed and went home together.

During the days of wandering and being imprisoned, Garfield must have been looking forward to Jon coming to rescue it. Garfield must have felt disappointed in his heart: the world really doesn't stop when someone leaves it. After Garfield figured this out, the haze quickly disappeared, and happiness returned to him. This time's happiness has made a qualitative leap from the previous happiness.

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