According to the survey, an interesting phenomenon was discovered: men’s monthly salary and popularity increase linearly, and the higher the income, the more popular they are; while women’s monthly salary and popularity are disproportionate. The slope is flat, and even when the monthly salary is 8,000 yuan, the popularity will decline slightly.

This reminds me of an interview I saw on TV and asked Alex Shum, do you have any reflections on this marriage? She was silent for a long time and said, I found that if a woman is more successful in her career than her man, the man may not be very happy.

This is a fact that makes women angry. Although in the 21st century, society is still "men are in charge of outside and women are in charge of home". After all, every man has been taught this kind of education since childhood:

You will be the bread provider of the family! You have a mission in life to provide for your family! So when the woman's income is much higher than his, and can even support him, what is the man's mission in life?

There are also women who are not convinced and think that they can cover up the problem by bending down, such as giving all their income to him. Management, or letting men pay the bill when dining with friends, thinking that this can make up for the financial gap between the two.

Do you think men’s self-esteem is really so easy to fool? Do you think that if he holds your wallet, others won’t know which one of you is the breadwinner of the family? What men need is a woman's heartfelt admiration, not the right to sign. I believe that Shen Dianxia must have carefully taken care of Zheng Shaoqiu's feelings and tried her best, but Zheng Shaoqiu is unhappy if he is not happy. The affair was just that he found a reason to leave her.

So what kind of husband do high-income women look for?

It’s very simple. You should insist on finding a man who is “taller” than you and whom you can truly admire.

Don’t be afraid of others saying that your vision is too high. There is a reason for being high. Between men and women, compromise does not necessarily lead to perfection. You can "marry", but a man may not appreciate it. You will not be rewarded for no merit, and it is not pleasant to owe someone a lifetime of love.

It's just that "high" doesn't necessarily refer to financial income, it can also mean that he has special achievements in some aspect. For example, your income is much higher than that of your husband, but he is a famous writer, director, and scholar. He has special contributions and fame in a certain field. So even if your income is higher than him, you still have reasons to appreciate and admire him.

Between the sexes, men are petty. Maybe from the beginning of acquaintance, you don't care who is taller and who is lower, who is strong and who is weak, but what if you are the one paying for the household expenses for ten years? Have you been paying the mortgage for twenty years? The economic structure determines the superstructure. This saying is equally applicable to families.

I have a friend who teaches at the University of Hong Kong, and a girl who works in a Swiss bank is interested in him. The two started dating smoothly, but in the end he married a girl who worked as a planner in a PR company. He told me that although his income from teaching was good, it was far behind her income from investment banking! He has a relatively leisurely job, but the price of her high income is that she has a very busy job and flies back and forth almost every day. Their life rhythms are completely different. He said, "She comes into contact with too many outstanding and successful people every day. I hope we can be more relaxed when we are two people, instead of always worrying about being compared."

You may think that men are too unsatisfactory and there is nothing they can do. A man's self-esteem is more important than love. He may love you, but he will not wrong himself in order to love you. If a woman wants to achieve long-term happiness, your man must either provide bread or make you proud. He must make you appreciate him very naturally and from the bottom of your heart. It’s just that when Jin Feng Yu Lu meets, they are better than countless people in the world. I can only say that you may have watched too many TV series.

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