While married men and women lament that they are about to become "leftover men" and "leftover women," there is a group of married white-collar workers in mainland China who claim to the outside world that they are still single aristocrats and are unwilling to disclose the fact that they have a marriage certificate. "Hidden marriage people" refer to people who have gone through all the marriage procedures, but hide the fact that they are married in public places and appear as singles, so they are also called "pseudo singles." Most of them are white-collar women, aged 25 to 35 years old, and there are fewer men. This shows that the "hidden marriage people" are not deliberately hiding their identities or avoiding marital responsibilities in order to have a romantic and happy life as imagined. On the contrary, most "hidden marriage people" avoid the topic of marriage because of pressure from society and the workplace.

Marriage is the basic element of building a family, the basic means to maintain human survival and reproduction, and the humanistic foundation to promote the progress of social civilization. It is a serious and serious topic. But nowadays, marriage has lost its traditional beauty and has become confusing and confusing. If the previous flash marriage groups showed the impetuousness of society, then this kind of hidden marriage group is just a replica of it.

The biggest characteristic of the hidden marriage people is that they deliberately hide their married status, are mysterious when answering the phone, and their tone is quite ambiguous; they claim to be happy single aristocrats, but avoid talking about love and marriage; there is no marriage on the ring finger I quit, but white marks appear; I usually have a warm relationship with the opposite sex, but I don’t keep in touch in private; I love socializing, but I don’t see anyone during holidays, etc.

When exploring the reasons for hidden marriages, some people who have hidden marriages said that they are mainly afraid that being married will lose the trust of their bosses or customers. There is some truth to this statement. Nowadays, gender discrimination has become an insurmountable threshold for women to obtain employment. In the workplace, it is often easier to extend an "olive branch" to "single aristocrats" and provide them with more job or education opportunities. Even in daily interactions, being married often keeps people at a distance, making it difficult to get the attention of the opposite sex. In this way, some women deliberately hide their marriages for career or social reasons, creating the illusion that "one person is full and the whole family is not hungry."

However, hidden marriage does not mean being unmarried. As a married person, being responsible to the family and society is the most basic obligation and responsibility. The essence of hidden marriage is to "hide" responsibilities from family and society, to play with one's own imagination and to play with others. Just imagine, a person who is shy about talking about his family and his marriage will hardly have a strong sense of family and a dedicated emotional awareness.

Moreover, in today’s world where sexual concepts are becoming more and more open, this kind of hidden marriage can easily lead to the phenomenon of “third party” or bigamy, which violates the morals of marriage and even violates criminal laws in serious cases.

Therefore, in the face of social and workplace pressure, you can vent or release it in various forms, but using hidden marriage to escape reality is not a wise move and is not advisable.

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