There are always reasons and excuses for the occurrence of extramarital affairs. Although the victim cannot accept it, the cheater will always use it to excuse his "evil deeds." In real life, there are many cases of men having extramarital affairs, so what excuses do they use to excuse themselves?

Excuse 1: Extramarital affairs save marriage

In real life, some men cheat and naively find a reason for themselves: Extramarital affairs can save the marriage. In fact, this is the stupidest excuse. An affair can only push your marriage to the forefront. Almost no woman can tolerate her man going behind her back to find other women. Therefore, a man's excuse for cheating will only fall into the marriage trap of his own design. Therefore, men, please be clear-headed. If there is a problem in your marriage, do not think of "cheating" to seek "relief."

Excuse 2: Tired of the existing marriage

A survey showed that 56% of men who had affairs thought their marriages were happy. For those male friends who think that their marriage is not happy, even if he loves his wife in his heart, he cannot control his behavior. Once they encounter the right opportunity, they will become confused in their hearts and start playing games. Had an extramarital affair. Here, I also advise those male friends who are happy for a while that life will eventually return to dullness. Therefore, only if you think about the passion to create marriage, can the love between two people be happy forever.

Excuse 3: Extramarital affairs fill the gap in marriage

Among the male friends I asked about cheating, one of them told me that he didn’t know why he cheated. He only knew that he had lost his wife and child and felt very regretful. In real life, many male friends feel this way. They can’t explain why they have extramarital affairs, or they are to recall something lost in their current marriage, or to pursue the feeling of love when they were young. In short, many men regret this kind of cheating.

The shocking reasons why women frequently have extramarital affairs

Infidelity makes a woman more feminine

Cheating is like the popular audition nowadays. Not just any woman can "steal" love, and not every woman has the ability, charm, courage, opportunity, or desire to have a secret love.

Infidelity is a temporary loss of body's sense of smell

Notice! Having an affair is not about stealing sex, nor is it about stealing something that can be converted into material things. Infidelity is a word that brings out sweat, shortness of breath, a pleasure that relaxes the nerves after being highly tense, a word that contains exploration, curiosity, excitement, anxiety and even guilt.

Having an affair has nothing to do with cheating. An affair is a temporary loss of the body's sense of smell and a brief blurring of the focus of the mind. A woman should be an affair thief once in her life.

Having an affair satisfies a woman’s curiosity

Compared to men, women are always full of curiosity about the man called her husband lying next to her.

Many women want to solve this mystery until their death: Why among all living beings, I am the only one who has stayed with this man for the rest of my life? Therefore, a woman should have an affair adventure.

Having an affair can open up a woman's heart

The process of this adventure is the process of untying the knot in a woman's heart step by step. The man called her husband is actually an arrangement of fate, whether it is an encounter or God's will.

Looking back, a woman discovers that she can never become an explorer, because there are only two words a woman can ever get from any man, including her own husband: loss. Just like opening a gift in a large box within a small box, as the packages are opened layer by layer, the expectations are getting higher and higher, but the result has been expected. What else is there besides disappointment?

Infidelity helps women understand themselves better

Everyone has two sides, a slut and a lady can be combined in one woman.

When a woman indulges herself as a slut, she will find that the world has changed; conversely, when she shows herself as a lady, she will discover the true nature of life.

A woman's affair is a kind of experience

And the woman who succeeds in having an affair in the end must be an excellent woman, and must be the best among women.

Therefore, the process of a woman's affair is a process of experience, a process that makes a woman reborn. In a woman's life, she needs to fall in love, get married, have children, and even more, have an affair.