Disharmonious sexual life can also be said to be an important factor affecting the relationship between husband and wife. In the life of two people, if the sexual life between husband and wife is harmonious, their relationship will be more stable. On the contrary, if the sexual life is not harmonious, it is very likely to lead to extramarital affairs, which is not conducive to everyone's marriage.

Psychologists have found that when men are unwilling or difficult to express their fragile feelings and fears in words, and when they are hurt and feel helpless or frustrated, they often vent these unspeakable emotions through sex. , to adjust psychological balance.

At this time, if the wife can give her husband a satisfactory sexual opportunity, it will be no less than "giving timely help" for the husband to regain his balance and regain his self-confidence.

There are bound to be bumps and quarrels between husband and wife. So, when couples are unhappy with each other due to certain issues, don't forget that sex is a good way to bridge the gap. Because sex can sublimate people's emotions, as a couple, it is easy to give up caring about each other and regenerate strong love for each other, so that the excessive emotions between each other can be calmed down. Therefore, there is a common saying among Chinese people that "couples can't spend the night arguing", which is very reasonable.

Regrettably, in real life, many couples not only do not know how to use sex to defuse conflicts between husband and wife, but often deliberately shut out sex when they have conflicts. In this way, conflicts not only cannot be resolved but may intensify, forming a vicious circle, and even leading to the breakdown of the marriage. Therefore, smart couples should understand and learn to use sex, so that sex can become a catalyst to resolve conflicts and enhance feelings.

Therefore, in marriage, if there is a quarrel between husband and wife, sometimes you might as well use sex skillfully, which can not only turn conflicts into friendship, but also enhance the relationship between husband and wife and make each other's marriage more stable. I hope that the above introduction can be helpful to everyone.

Tenderness is a plus point for a happy sexual life

When a couple lives together for a long time, everything will slowly cool down like boiling water. The most obvious one is the sexual life. Sometimes, even if the other party hints, the other party just can't bring up the sexual relationship. How to solve this problem? Take a look at the tenderness strategy introduced by the editor below.

Thoughtful and comforting

Many men look strong and have successful careers, but they are full of helplessness and decadence when it comes to sex. Ailing's husband is the vice president of a large company, he is smart, capable and talented. But recently, their married life has become awkward. "What happened to you? You are already aging prematurely when you are only in your thirties." Under the guidance of her close friend, Ai Ling realized that she could no longer complain and accuse him. Perhaps only her own appropriate consideration and comfort could It will bring comfort to the husband. Later, during the nights they spent together, Ailing often stroked her husband's hair gently and said softly: "It doesn't matter, you may be too nervous..." The husband kissed his wife gratefully, and the next situation was completely different. Their sex Life becomes warm and beautiful again.

In fact, what many men cannot bear most is criticism of their sexual ability by others, especially their wives. Once this happens, it will cast a shadow on their sexual life. The more afraid of failure, the more likely it is that you will fail and eventually avoid sex altogether.

Interesting and meaningful

After many couples have lived together for a long time, they regard sex life as ordinary and dull as washing their faces and brushing their teeth. They no longer feel the thrilling emotion. Over time, the husband finds it boring, thus affecting their relationship and feelings. . Xiaoli's husband always doesn't want to go home after get off work. He doesn't want to see his wife's disdainful eyes that seem to see through everything. Last month, Xiaoli's husband went to Shanghai on a business trip and bought Xiaoli a beautiful light red pajamas. At night, her husband asked Xiaoli to put it on: "My dear, you will look beautiful in it." Xiaoli scanned She glanced at her husband: "Why spend so much money on it? It's better to buy a suit that I can wear to work." Xiaoli glanced at her husband who looked embarrassed again: "You are almost forty, and you still need What's this romance for?" The husband said nothing more, but it was clear that he had no interest in sex.

In fact, sexual intercourse between husband and wife depends on desire. Without desire and impulse, even if the physiology is normal, there will be no excitement. Although many wives think that modern women do not need to please themselves or deliberately satisfy men’s sexual needs, but looking back, wives also have the right to enjoy sex. How can they enjoy the sweetness of sex if they do not care about brewing the fragrance of love? ? And more importantly, if you as a wife have neither taste nor charm, nor inspire your husband's fantasy, then how can you ensure that your husband will always love you as much as ever?

Initiative and tenderness

At night, when your husband walks into the house tiredly carrying his briefcase, as a wife, will you prepare a cup of hot tea and a delicious dinner for your husband, and then lead him, who is full of fatigue, into the dimly lit and steamy bathroom to enjoy? A tender bubble bath? Many people don’t understand that husbands also need their wives’ pampering and love. If a wife takes the initiative to design a nightlife full of warmth for her beloved husband, it will obviously bring joy and indescribable sweetness to her husband. For those husbands with sexual dysfunction, their wives are their best therapists and the first ones they turn to for help. But more importantly, what the husband needs is not superficial comfort, but tenderness and communication from the depths of his soul.

Therefore, the wife's active and sincere care is the husband's eternal spiritual support, and the wife's tenderness is the best catalyst to ignite the husband's passion!

The above are the tenderness strategies for dealing with couples who are unable to arouse sexual desire in their sex life. In fact, in life, whether it is a husband or a wife, after being busy outside, what they want most is to come home and feel the love and care of their partner. Therefore, if you want to make the relationship between husband and wife sweeter, don’t forget to add a touch of tenderness.