The ant tribe born in the 1980s became popular with "half-naked" marriages

According to a survey, in Taiyuan, the provincial capital, the ant tribe born in the 1980s did not buy a house, car, or diamond ring when they got married. , only hold a non-luxurious banquet, and even have a fear of marriage due to material "three noes", accounting for more than 50%.

"Three Nos" Marriage Emotions Come First

"Although our marriage does not have a house, a car, or a diamond ring, we don't want to miss each other." 29-year-old Du Qinglan plans to Got married on May 1st this year. Du Qinglan's hometown is Taigu, Shanxi Province, and now works in an insurance company in Taiyuan City, doing back-office work.

"My current girlfriend and I were college classmates. We met and fell in love at the most beautiful age. I think this relationship is worth fighting for with all my strength." When Du Qinglan said these words, his face was full of smiles. happiness. The reporter noticed that Du Qinglan mentioned the words "strength and struggle" one after another in one sentence. Du Qinglan told reporters that strength comes from the relationship between two people, and he strives to achieve the goal of "half-naked marriage" through the efforts of two people.

"Isn't there a saying now, called escaping from Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou? I have had such an idea." Du Qinglan told reporters. When I first graduated, I had no social experience and no social connections in Taiyuan. Although I had a good relationship with my girlfriend, I once wanted to go home to develop my career due to financial problems.

"My girlfriend's home is in Taiyuan. When I wanted to take her back to develop, the two of us had a fierce dispute." In fact, Du Qinglan was not willing to give up the opportunity to develop in the provincial capital, so He finally set a time limit for himself. If he still couldn't find a suitable job within three months, he would go home. Although my girlfriend was a hundred times unwilling, she finally compromised.

In the following three months, Du Qinglan's life was basically a three-step cycle. He kept searching, interviewing, and re-examining every day, and was finally hired as an internal staff member by a well-known domestic insurance company.

"My current monthly salary is 2,200 yuan. If you continue to calculate like this, if you want to buy a house, you will have to save money for five years just for the down payment." Du Qinglan said that she is 29 years old this year. My girlfriend is 28 years old this year. From a physiological point of view, she is about to miss the best age for childbearing, so marriage is officially on the agenda.

“It cannot be said that marriage is just for having children. It should be said that it only accounts for part of the total reason.” Du Qinglan said that people should do something at any age, although now her marriage is “half-naked” and “three-nothing”. , "But since you have chosen love, you should be worthy of it." Du Qinglan finally said with certainty.

The wedding banquet still has to be held due to face issues

“Our parents require us to hold a wedding banquet,” said 26-year-old Li Jun. In October last year, Li Jun received his marriage certificate with his girlfriend of 2 years.

Li Jun currently works for a railway machinery parts company, and business trips are a common occurrence for him. He said that his career is now on the rise. Although the current salary is not very high, the development prospects are still relatively good. Frequent business trips and the fact that his girlfriend has not graduated from graduate school are the two main reasons why they have not held a wedding yet.

"Although my girlfriend and I are both the only children in the family, the family situation of both families is not very good." Li Jun said that there were difficulties in getting the marriage certificate first but not entertaining relatives and friends.

"My mother-in-law has a request from me, and she must hold a decent wedding." Li Jun said that the mother-in-law's mentality is still acceptable. After all, this is just my precious daughter. But the girl's parents had a tough attitude towards the banquet level. "The prices for hotel wedding banquets are not cheap. The minimum price is 888 yuan." Li Jun calculated the account carefully. Adding tobacco, alcohol and wedding companies, the price of each banquet exceeded 1,100 yuan. Regarding this price, Li Jun said that he couldn't bear it. He ran around here and there, and the money he finally saved was all for buying a house in the future.

"The only option is to take a step back." Li Jun said that after repeated communication with the two adults, he was ready to find a mid-range hotel to host his wedding banquet.

"Everything should be done according to one's ability. Saving money like this now is to buy a house, which can be regarded as 'saving the country'." Li Jun was a bit self-deprecating when he said these words. He told reporters that many of his friends were "married half naked" because of the "three noes". "But things are done by people. As long as you work hard, life will still be wonderful." Li Jun said with a smile.

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