Fei'er was born in a scholarly family and was influenced by the family atmosphere since she was a child. She is knowledgeable about books and etiquette, and is well-behaved and smart. Her parents regarded her as the apple of their eyes and cared for her in every possible way. After Mayfair's secondary sexual characteristics became more and more obvious, her parents suddenly felt that the burden on their shoulders became much heavier. So she took out the "Daughters' Sutra" and taught her daughters earnestly: Girls should not be too close to boys, otherwise they will become bad girls; if girls have feelings for boys when they are students, they will become bad girls... Feier firmly remembers her parents The instructions carefully guard the sacred pure land of the soul from being defiled. During a spring outing, a female classmate walked into a hidden bush with her unknowingly, and suddenly found a man and a woman hiding in the gap between the trees in the distance. The man was seen kissing the woman's white and tender breasts intoxicatedly. caressing. Feier was stunned. If it weren't for the urging of the female classmate, she almost forgot to leave. In the car on the way back, Fei'er felt very uncomfortable. When I got home, I went into the bathroom, wanting to take a good bath and wash away those dirty scenes. Mayfair stood under the showerhead, scrubbing her white and tender skin with the warm running water. When her hands inadvertently touched her breasts, she suddenly trembled, as if "a call" came, and an extremely wonderful feeling spread throughout her body. She couldn't help but think of the "curtain of spring scenery" in the bushes, and kept moving her hands. He touched her breasts, thighs, and vagina...

That night, Feier couldn't sleep. She suddenly noticed that Chen Zhu was here. Chen Zhu is the chief writer of the school literary club and the prince charming in Fei'er's heart. Fei'er knew that Chen Zhu also liked her, but Fei'er never dared to have the idea of ​​getting close to her. But not today, Fei'er greeted him openly, Chen Zhu rushed over to hug her, the two of them hugged each other naked, and the pleasure of the call filled his body again. Suddenly, Chen Zhu pressed her down, and Feier screamed in horror... It turned out that she had had a sex dream.

When she returned to school the next day, Mayfair felt uncomfortable all over. She looked at the blackboard, but in her mind she was thinking about the "spring scenery" in the bushes and the scene in her dream. "No! No!" Feier shouted in her heart. She blamed herself for being too "dirty" and vowed to get rid of the hallucination. However, the more she suppressed herself, the more intense the "spring scene" became in her mind. From then on, Feier was worried about herself all day long, and she was always worried that her parents, teachers, and classmates would see her "ugly soul." She could not focus on her studies, and her grades plummeted. Finally, her parents discovered the problem, and Mayfair was sent to the psychological consultation room. The result of the consultation made Mayfair and her parents relieved that the matter was far from that terrible.

In fact, the phenomenon of "spring" in men and women entering puberty is an inevitable result of physical and psychological development. After a girl's menarche in her twelfth or thirteenth year, her breasts become increasingly swollen and enlarged, her body becomes plump, her buttocks become rounded, her body secretes a large amount of estrogen, her sexual desire begins to arise, and her desire for contact with the opposite sex generally increases, and its manifestations become more and more colorful. For example, they like to read books on sexual knowledge, like to excerpt wonderful descriptions of love from literary works, and excerpt poems and songs that describe love, which can arouse sexual associations. At the same time, they also like to pay attention to the opposite sex, long for contact with the opposite sex, like to show their appearance and posture in front of the opposite sex, hoping to win the favor of the opposite sex, and some even try to find ways to attract the other person's attention through some kind of teasing. Psychologists call this period the "period of longing for the opposite sex."

Things have become very clear. What should worry Mayfair and her parents is not Mayfair's "dirty" thoughts, but Mayfair's mental disorder. If a boy or girl in the developmental period, influenced by traditional culture, regards his normal sexual physiological and psychological development as obscene and sinful manifestations, and affects his normal thinking, emotions, and behaviors, it is a psychological disorder. obstacle.

Therefore, teenagers should pay attention to their own sexual psychology. The psychological changes and development processes of young men and women's understanding, experience and behavioral performance of gender relations are objective and normal. However, it must be coordinated with social and individual living conditions. The main focus should be on the pursuit of knowledge and understanding of society, strengthening rationality and reducing concern about sex. Girls are more sensitive to sexual experiences during adolescence than boys, and often masturbate unknowingly. People who have the habit of masturbating can divert their attention, or recall or think about some meaningful things to reduce their interest in masturbation. Boys and girls should treat the phenomenon of "Huaichun" correctly. Parents and teachers should not regard "Huaichun" as a sin, but should be considerate of them and provide timely enlightenment. It is necessary to encourage normal interactions between male and female students, cultivate children's sexual morality and sexual adaptability, and successfully pass through this critical period of sexual development.

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