Nowadays, young boys and girls will consider one issue after they start falling in love, living together. Living together can be a way to enhance feelings and adapt to each other's living habits, but it is not 100% reliable. Girls, especially, must learn to protect themselves when living together.

Cohabitation pregnancy shatters fragile relationship

Nowadays, the phenomenon of unmarried couples living together can be seen everywhere. In their view, living together is a symbol of happiness and sweetness, but in fact it is the opposite.

It is easy for young people to act impulsively because of feelings. On the surface, cohabitation is caused by love, but in essence it is caused by desire and curiosity. Young men prefer sexual behavior, and most women are blind because of love, so they comply with each other's wishes, and the two begin to live together. Maybe they did love each other, but they definitely didn't reach the level of being truly attached to each other and taking responsibility for their love.

It can be seen from the many joys and sorrows that most men fall in love for sex and then live together again. Pure desire does not carry any sense of responsibility. People without a sense of responsibility are most afraid of heavy burdens, and marriage and children are their nemesis. When they learn that they have gone too far and made their girlfriend pregnant, the first thing they will do is escape, blaming all the consequences on the woman and letting them bear the consequences alone. Stay alone and deal with this broken relationship.

Women have different ideas from men. Only when they truly love someone are they willing to give everything they have. The same is true for living together. Blindly following and paying will not yield good results. Meeting an irresponsible man means that the relationship will be broken from the beginning. "Breaking up" due to pregnancy is nothing more than an excuse. There is no need to blame others. Isn't it men who make women pregnant? The faults committed by men are borne by the victims. Such unreasonable things have become an "unspoken rule", but women who are crazy about love are still obsessed with it.

When unmarried and living together, girls must protect themselves

It is not uncommon for girls to get pregnant before marriage after living together with their boyfriends. If they meet the right person, they may have a happy ending; if they meet the wrong person, they may have to reap the consequences. Girls who have this kind of thing are often unable to defend themselves because they are afraid that the matter will be exposed. After all, unmarried cohabitation is not protected by law, so the process that girls will face is often painful and dangerous.

Girls must be careful when making friends. After you know enough about the person, you can decide whether to live together. Don't give your most precious things to others at will. If an unmarried pregnancy occurs and the other party is unreliable, you can turn to certain sectors of society and specific individuals to achieve the purpose of protecting reputation and solving problems, and is beneficial to physical and mental health. In fact, there are many things that unmarried men and women need to consider when living together. The following two "nots" are more important.

Living together is not a way to maintain long-term love

Choosing to live together in order to make love last longer often fails to achieve the desired results and will instead lead to the destruction of the relationship.

Young couples may live together because of feelings, but more factors may stem from certain life needs, such as sex, material, etc. Moreover, cohabitation does not carry the family responsibilities of formal marriage, and cohabitants still have their own "right to choose." When feelings are indifferent, life is not harmonious, and conflicts increase when two people get along, the relationship will end at any time.

Cohabitation behavior that is full of "loopholes" is not enough to carry the responsibility contained in love. It is more inclined to physical release rather than spiritual communication. Therefore, using cohabitation as a means to maintain love is like drinking poison to quench thirst and will not lead to a happy ending.

The distance between cohabitation and marriage is not a piece of paper

Many couples confuse cohabitation with marriage. They feel that the only difference between cohabitation and marriage is the marriage certificate. This view is ridiculous. Marriage is the product of the combination of spiritual, material, and family responsibilities of both sexes; in contrast, cohabitation can satisfy people's spiritual and physical desires, but most of them do not have family responsibilities.

Moreover, cohabiting couples are not as loyal as married couples, and they have the right to "choose again." When you are not used to it or are tired of living together, the relationship will end in breakup. This is not the case in marriage. Husbands and wives have a high degree of loyalty. They will invest all their feelings in the family, and generally there will be no "abstention" phenomenon.

The marriage certificate is a symbol of the union of love and life, and has certain binding force and responsibility. Therefore, if you simply think that there is only a thin line between cohabitation and marriage, it will be difficult for your relationship to be successful.