Why do men cheat? Where are the places where they are most likely to cheat? Some scholars conducted a questionnaire survey and discovered that nearly half of the opportunities for men to cheat come from work. Many men's lovers meet at work. They may not have wanted to cheat at first, but frequent contact at work can easily make them fall in love with the opposite sex for a long time and eventually cheat.

During the investigation, Newman reviewed some previous reports on the reasons for men’s infidelity and found that most of the answers came from the wife’s point of view. He wondered, if he asked men, would he get a more truthful answer? To this end, he conducted an on-site investigation of 200 men who had had affairs and those who had not had affairs to find out the real reasons for their affairs. The following is the conclusion reached:

1. 68% of men feel guilty when they cheat.

Newman pointed out that 68% of men who cheat never thought they would be unfaithful, and almost all of them wished they had not cheated. But apparently, guilt can't make a man stop cheating.

2. 77% of men who cheated had a friend who also had an affair.

Staying for long periods of time with friends who have cheated on you can make men feel that infidelity is normal. His subconscious told himself: My friend is a good man, but he just happened to cheat on his wife. No matter how good a man is, he will inevitably cheat. Therefore, as a wife, you should let your husband go to bars less often, associate less with people who have affairs, do more outdoor sports, make friends with people who have happy families, and create an environment that protects marriage.

3. 48% of men believe that lack of emotional satisfaction is the primary reason for their cheating.

Newman said: "In fact, men are also emotional animals. They want to be appreciated by their wives, and they also want women to understand the efforts they have made to do everything well." The problem is that men are not like women, they are very Say less about these feelings. Therefore, always praise and be considerate to your lover, so that he feels that you need him, care about him, and care about him. Of course, physical satisfaction is also important. After all, 8% of men say that dissatisfaction with desire is the main reason for their infidelity.

4. Only 12% of men who cheated found their lover more attractive than their wife.

That said, most men don't cheat in order to get better sex from a more beautiful woman. "Most of the time it's just to fill the emotional emptiness." Therefore, the wife should work hard to make the relationship between husband and wife sweeter and closer, pay more attention to her husband, and encourage and affirm her sex life more.

5. 40% of men meet another woman at work.

"Usually the object of a man's affair is the woman in the office who appreciates him, respects him, and praises his efforts." Newman said that this is another important reason for making him feel valuable at home.

6. 6% of men who cheated had sex on the same day they met another woman.

73% of men do not cheat on another woman until they have known her for more than a month. This means you can stop this from happening before he betrays you. Common signs include: he spends more and more time away from home, he no longer asks you for sex, he travels more frequently, he hangs up on you, etc. Don't question him directly, it's better to use your own behavior to guide him to change and lead your relationship back on the right track, such as praising him, saying you love him, telling him how you feel about this relationship, etc.