Men’s psychology is actually as elusive as women’s. Although men appear to be careless and informal, the following 8 psychological weaknesses have a fatal impact on him, so please do not enter the “minefield” easily. .

1. Don’t often test a man, and don’t threaten to break up. When you often give him this kind of psychological hint, his subconscious mind will make plans to break up. Temptation means distrust. It is even more wrong to threaten to break up if you don't trust. On the contrary, it will make a man doubt your love for him. When a man really agrees, you are not beaten.

2. Don’t expand your rights without limit just because a man loves you. Don’t interfere with his ideals, beliefs and pursuits. Don’t think that you can see further than a man. He must have some qualities that you don’t understand. . Sometimes the essence of love is transaction. A man exchanges his love for your love, rather than getting worse from you. If you mistakenly believe that a man's concession is a sign of respect for you, then your relationship is not far from death.

3. Don’t be late often. Don’t think that because a man loves you, he should have infinite patience. A person’s patience has its limits. When the patience is exhausted, it’s time to spend your love. There is a saying: Don't wait until a man loses his patience to think of temptation. There is another saying: What China does not lack most is women. So don’t keep men waiting too long.

4. Don’t believe in the sentence “If you love me, you should know what I think.” This is a complete lie. No one will completely know what the other person thinks. It is very foolish to conclude that a man does not love you because he did not understand your thoughts in time. I forget where this sentence originally came from, but it is often seen in Korean dramas and romance novels. You're not the woman in the plot, right? ! Likewise, I am not the man in the plot. So I don’t have the superpower to read your mind.

5. Don’t confide everything to him just because he is the person closest to you. Give him all your misfortunes, pains, grievances and complaints. Use him as an outlet. A man is not a junkyard. When he is When he confirms that he can't change you, he will just run away. Occasionally telling your misfortunes will give you inner catharsis and gain sympathy from men. But being sentimental, worrying and being sad about things that may not happen will make men very disgusted. A partner who laughs a lot or a partner who looks unlucky, which one would you choose?

6. Don’t try to change a man. Don’t think that he will become your ideal and excellent man under your training. It is wiser to adapt to him than to change him. If you like eating apples, go find an apple. Why force a pear to turn into an apple? It's hard for him to change, and it's hard for you to eat.

7. Don’t be overconfident in your own charm. Few men will endure the temptation to go back on their word permanently, and few men can come and go at once, unless this man loves you for an ulterior motive. This is very dangerous, and a man will not intrinsically like doing this, unless he is humiliating himself to please you. If you lie to him, you have to pay attention to whether there is sulfuric acid in his cup.

8. Don’t hold on to a man’s mistakes and quote them endlessly in every quarrel. No man likes such a woman. Men will correct their mistakes and make it up to you in other ways. This behavior is called "compensation" in psychology. The purpose is to exchange for your forgetfulness. If you are still aggressive, then men also have a psychology called "rebellion."