Life is a process of constant pursuit of happiness. In the relationship between men and women, there is nothing that can keep two people together for a long time than marriage. Before entering the palace of marriage, there will always be a long-distance race of love with twists and turns. How many people can withstand the test of this long-distance race and finally reach the finish line?

Life is a process of constant pursuit of happiness. In the relationship between men and women, there is nothing that can keep two people together for a long time than marriage. Before entering the palace of marriage, there will always be a long-distance race of love with twists and turns. How many people can withstand the test of this long-distance race and finally reach the finish line?

Today, when the divorce rate and the probability of extramarital affairs remain high, there are not many ways to make love work, and breakups abound. Countless men and women feel like they have hit rock bottom after breaking up, unable to recover. In the traditional concept, women are always weak, so we always think that after a breakup, women will find it more difficult than men to accept the fact of a breakup, and will become depressed and immersed in the grief of a breakup for a long time. Men who give people a strong feeling are more able to withstand the blow of a breakup and can handle it with ease. But the fact is that we have all been deceived by the outside world. In fact, men are more afraid of breaking up!

Although women may look weak on the outside, they have a strong heart. Studies have shown that women have stronger psychological endurance than men in the face of sudden and huge blows, while most men only show up on the outside and are very fragile on the inside. Why are men more afraid of breaking up? Let the editor answer them one by one for you.

1. Leftover men>Leftover women, more monks and less rice

A few days ago, a website calculated the top ten cities with the highest cost of marriage today. In these ten cities, you need to have a net worth of millions to get married. Faced with the huge cost of marriage, urban men and women have retreated. Those in love have become marriage-phobic and do not dare to talk about getting married. Single older men and women enjoy the fun of being left alone and do not dare to talk about love.

Many people have seen the problem of leftover men and women, and are afraid that this will cause demographic changes in Chinese society, so they have repeatedly emphasized this issue and put it on the agenda. At a time when many leftover women are anxious about their lifelong happiness, it is not difficult to find that in fact, there are far more leftover men than leftover women in China. This is due to the traditional Chinese concept of favoring sons over women. The proportion of men in China's population far exceeds that of women. Many men There is a danger of becoming a bachelor.

In today's world where there are more men than women and there are too many people and too few people, several men want to rob a woman. A man will always worry about whether he can find a girlfriend after a breakup. Can he not be afraid?

2. Rebuilding a relationship takes a lot of time

What people fear most is a habit. When you do something and it has become a habit, then one day you no longer do it, you will always feel that something is missing, and you will feel uneasy. Falling in love is also a habit. You have become accustomed to having her by your side. Her every move, smile and smile are all familiar to you, and the smell of her body can also make you easily identify her. Once she leaves after a breakup, you will feel as if the world has collapsed.

After a breakup, boys will feel very excited, thinking that they can regain their freedom and date other women. But after a while, they will realize that it will take a long time for them to feel as natural as being with their ex-girlfriend. How long this period of time is, no one has an accurate figure. Moreover, once an ex-girlfriend becomes a habit, a man will always have the shadow of his ex-girlfriend in his heart and compare his current girlfriend with his ex-girlfriend, which will lead to an escalation of conflicts between the two.

It is difficult to create something, easy to destroy something, and even harder to recreate something. When a man chooses to break up, he is creating problems for himself. Can he not be afraid?

3. Few friends of the opposite sex around me

When in love, people have a strong desire to possess, so they have a kind of hostility towards friends of the opposite sex around them. This results in the fact that men have very few friends of the opposite sex, but they have a lot of buddies.

After a breakup, if you want to quickly find a replacement, you can only start with the familiar ones. After all, you don’t know how long it will take to get to know some new friends before developing a new relationship. There aren't many men of the opposite sex around them, and even if they do, they're the kind of people who call themselves brothers and have no personal relationships. How can they talk about love?

However, women have an amazing circle of friends. Research shows that men rely on love for emotional intimacy and social support, while women like to turn to family and female friends as their safest refuge. Including her mother, sisters, friends, beauticians and drivers, no matter who the person was, the more often she talked about it, the faster she recovered.

Men have few friends around them, and even fewer friends of the opposite sex. There are no backup candidates, and no one can give him much comfort. Therefore, breaking up will cause him great trouble.

Breaking up, regardless of men or women, will cause a certain degree of damage, but men will take a longer time to get over the pain of breaking up, and they are more afraid of breaking up. If you don’t want to be hurt by a breakup, then take good care of their relationship.