Nowadays, people's pace of life is getting faster and faster, but the frequency of sexual life is declining year by year. According to statistics, more than 20% of couples are in a sexless marriage. Excluding physical diseases and accidents, if there is still no sex life for more than a month, it is called a sexless marriage. If it continues, it will disrupt the structure of family life, break up the couple's relationship, and even lead to extramarital affairs. So how can we say goodbye to a sexless marriage.

How to say goodbye to a sexless marriage?

1. Do not make negative comments

No matter how good your sex life is, you cannot make any negative comments, and you must not be sarcastic, so as not to affect the intimacy between husband and wife. Husband and wife also need to communicate more, trust more, don't misunderstand your partner's good intentions, interpret the other party in a friendly way, and don't judge from a negative perspective. View the other person's behavior with a positive attitude, so as to improve the marital relationship.

2. Learn to listen

In fact, what most women really want is to listen, and they cannot just think about how to solve the problem. When one party wants to talk or complain, they can listen quietly. If they cannot propose a solution immediately, they might as well choose the right time to express their suggestions. In addition, exercising together as a couple not only improves endurance and physical strength, but also enhances flexibility and balance. Making yourself sweat after exercise can stimulate dopamine secretion and increase sexual desire.

3. Ignore the shortcomings of women

Men can't keep talking about women's shortcomings and ignore the shortcomings in women that make you feel bored. You might as well respond to their character so that the best side of him can be shown. In addition, research has found that the more couples interact, the more perfect the marriage will be. After getting married, you have to transform me into us, think more about the whole family, and not be self-centered in everything.

4. Leave the child for half a quarter of an hour

Couples should always find time to enhance their relationship and avoid any interference. It may only take 15 minutes or half an hour to add passion to life. You might as well let relatives and friends take care of the children for the time being and enjoy the world of two to the fullest.

5. Watch a movie together

Surveys show that couples who watch a movie about married life once a week and communicate more can reduce the divorce rate. In addition, stop harming the other party consciously in time and pay attention to your own behavior and language.

6. Respond positively

You should respond positively to the news from your wife. For example, when your wife takes on new job responsibilities, you might as well respond positively and constructively to celebrate together. Still support him unconditionally when he tells you bad news, but a negative response can make a woman feel even more disappointed and depressed.

Warm reminder

If you do not get enough peace of mind and happiness in the marriage process, such as resentment, one party refusing to have sex or bearing significant financial pressure and burden, and lack of trust, etc. will hinder the smooth progress of sex life, and if not dealt with in time, it will The intimacy between husband and wife becomes increasingly distant. There is also a lack of care and affection that can lead to physical or emotional distance between partners. Therefore, both men and women communicate more, understand each other's real thoughts, and see what the other person likes and dislikes. Only in this way can the couple get closer and closer and improve their intimacy. During the communication process, you can properly miss the romantic times in the past, recall the wonderful feeling of heartbeat in the past, put aside all the tedious family, work pressure and psychological reasons, and give the other party zero-distance contact. There is also a need to face sex life with a correct attitude.