A study from the University of British Columbia in Canada said that men who like to smile and have fun all day long are not "sexually" attractive to women. Those with cold and dignified expressions are favored by the opposite sex.

Boys are often relatively simple, and they can easily show whether they are interested in her or not. There is nothing to hide. But many boys don't know whether some of her behavior hides the possibility of love, or is just out of gentleness and elegance.

Being nice to me = liking me, this is the way boys think. But in the psychology of girls, gentleness may be just a common little mask, and the real small signals of goodwill are often shown in other places.

1. When talking to you, which direction does your body face?

No matter how she smiles and speaks gracefully, to know whether she is attracted to you, please first look at the direction of her body.

When she is sitting, even if her upper body is leaning towards you, as long as her feet are facing the opposite direction to you, or are tucked upright, it means that her heart is not given to you yet.

If you are standing and talking, observe the distance between the two of you. Generally speaking, anything within fifty centimeters is an intimate distance. But wait for a moment and look at her body language. Is it defensive? For example, are you crossing your arms? If not, she is basically not wary of you.

2. Behavior when saying goodbye

When you are about to break up, for example, you have arrived at the station and you walk away in two directions. After she takes two or three steps out, does she turn around and look at you? If she just walks away and never looks back, it means that you are just friends. (Superior-subordinate relationships and customer relationships are a separate matter)

3. Eyes don’t lie

Ask her the simplest questions first, what she likes to eat and what she doesn’t like to eat. What you want to observe at this time is her line of sight. NLP, which studies neuro-linguistics, has a set of sight theory, which believes that when people have two emotions, like and disgust, the direction of their eyes is unconscious, but it is specific. So, know her emotional baseline and remember the "like" and "dislike" eye directions. Next, ask a question that connects her to you in a natural way. For example, ask her if she wants to go to a certain restaurant with you? Now look at the direction of her gaze. Is it "like" or "dislike"? You'll know if she really wants to date you.

No matter what she says, if her eyes are not on the "like" side, I'm sorry, it may just be social etiquette.

4. SMS frequency

You are still in the testing stage, try sending mood text messages that have nothing to do with work or business. If you reply immediately, it means that you care about each other; if you reply within two or three hours, add something like, "I'm busy at work, I'm sorry I just saw you", and you can continue to pursue it. On the contrary, I suggest you give up. (The other person doesn’t like text messages, so that’s a different matter.) If she often exchanges text messages with you, and also likes to send photos, such as which store she is in now, what interesting things she saw, etc., then good feelings are about to come out.

Which characteristics of men and women can best attract the favor of the opposite sex

Goodwill is expressed through body language, not words. Even if you're just walking together, you can tell whether the other person cares about you by looking at the size of her steps and whether her rhythm matches yours.

Being attracted to someone of the opposite sex is sometimes just a momentary thing. So which characteristics of men and women can best attract the favor of the opposite sex?

The famous British fashion magazine "Style" summarizes some of the latest scientific research.

Men like women with red lips. A survey by the University of Manchester in the UK showed that when a woman puts on lipstick, men's eyes stay on her lips, eyes and hair for 7 seconds, 0.95 seconds and 0.85 seconds respectively.

Men like women with long arms. Researchers at the University of New South Wales in Sydney, Australia, found that men have little resistance to women with long arms. Long arms mean that women have longer legs.

Men like women wearing red. British psychologists found that red can quickly grab men's attention and arouse men's fantasies.

Men like women who understand humor. A survey of young men and women in their 20s by the University of Western Ontario in Canada found that men like women who understand humor, while women like men who can express humor.

Women are attracted to deep voices. Research from the University of Aberdeen in the UK shows that men with deep voices are more likely to impress women. A deep voice reminds women of attractive factors such as good physique and masculinity.

Women are attracted to men who don't like to smile. A study from the University of British Columbia in Canada said that men who like to smile and have fun all day long are not "sexually" attractive to women. Those with cold and dignified expressions are favored by the opposite sex.

Women are attracted to men with scars. The American magazine "Personality and Individual Differences" pointed out that small scars on the face will increase women's liking for men. Small scars are often associated with words such as bravery, masculinity, and decisiveness.

Eight secret signs that women want to take the initiative

1 Initiative ≠ Exchange: Initiative is really not for exchange. Please don’t hug him and ask for sex just because of your fur coat. Over time, a man will feel that you are blackmailing him and that he is paying for sex.

2. Keep it mysterious: Understand the psychology of men. Sometimes it is better to take the initiative but also to play hard to get. Saying "you want" in a roundabout way is more charming than saying "you want" directly.

3. Prescribe the right medicine: Is he a man with strong traditional values? For example, if he feels that your initiative will make him uncomfortable, then give him a process to accept you. Remember, after all, not all men like women to take the initiative in this area.

4. Distinguish between subject and predicate: Sometimes, he likes you to take the initiative, sometimes he longs for a situation where you are not proactive. Specific situations require specific application. Remember, it is most taboo to take the initiative regardless of occasion and situation.

5 Sexual Language Codes: Do you have a tacit understanding with him? Is there a kind of tacit understanding where you only need to make a physical movement and he will understand it? Try to develop your sexual language code so that he can take over the sexual olive branch you offer in a timely manner.

6. Eye conveying: A very important rule between seduction and being seduced is: everything is left unsaid. You don't have to use words. Sometimes, your eyes are the best weapon to show your love. Seduce him until he feels that he must act.

7. Negotiate as equals: Taking the initiative does not mean being overbearing. When you, like a man, are eager to practice a certain skill, remember, have you negotiated with him? Do you know he likes it? Every man and woman has their own sexual taboos, don't touch them.

8. Don’t force: Even if you take the initiative, if he is in the male menstrual cycle, don’t force him. Men have the right to do so, and this is a society with gender equality.