Interpretation of Four Questions in Couple Life

From the moment you enter the marriage hall, you are destined to no longer be alone in your future life. What problems will you encounter when you start a new life? How should we face it? It must be a question that many newlyweds have, and Brother Danding will help you answer it today!

1. The book says that the average frequency of sexual intercourse between couples is once or twice a week, but we have not had intercourse for several months. Do we have any problems?

No. The frequency of sex varies from person to person. Every couple goes through a period of sexlessness. Sex is intermittent, coming on and off, hot and cold. This is mostly caused by external factors, such as financial constraints, fatigue, irritability, anxiety, interruptions from children, etc. Even some subtle psychological changes can also have an impact. This is exactly what the so-called "full, warm and lustful" means. You can't still be interested in having sex when the stock price plummets.

2. Will he dislike me after I give birth?

It is normal for a husband to lose his "sexual interest" after his wife gives birth, but fortunately this process is very short. , that is, a few weeks. This does not mean that their wives lose their appeal in their eyes, it is mainly out of consideration for their wives. They know their wife has just been through some pain and don't want to put any more pressure on her.

Psychologists believe that at this time, it is natural for couples to focus their energy on their children. But this special phase will soon pass. Communication between husband and wife is particularly important. A wife should not only take care of the baby but neglect her care and tenderness for her husband. Otherwise he will feel "abandoned".

3. Although my husband tried his best, I still feel a sense of loss after sex. Is there something wrong with me?

No problem. At best, there is no good communication. Men instinctively know what to do, but women are shy about telling their husbands which parts of the body need caressing, and are disappointed when their husbands don't do it. In fact, you can either tell him personally what should be done, or you can unknowingly guide his hands to touch the sensitive parts you desire to caress, and express your pleasure in time to encourage him to continue. This subtle interaction goes a long way toward a harmonious couple's life.

4. Will children be panicked if they see us having sex?

It is best to avoid letting children see it. Because it may arouse their sexual awareness, imitate adults in playing sexual games with their friends.

If you really see it, you should carefully explain it to your child and tell him not to make a fuss. This is a way for everyone to express love. Don't tell him that only adults can do this kind of thing, as that will arouse his curiosity.