The phenomenon of cohabitation is becoming more and more common. There is no official statistics that can explain how many people are living together in China. For those who enjoy it, the feeling of cohabitation is a paradise. For those who suffer from it, it is a paradise. But it is hell. The only thing that is certain is that the phenomenon of cohabitation, which is popular all over the world, is the most fragile relationship between the sexes.

A large-scale survey proved that 65.73% of requests for cohabitation were made by boys first, and nearly 20% of girls were completely at a loss or at a loss when faced with "his" request to live together. Choose to bend your will to cater to "him". There are advantages and disadvantages to living together before marriage. This article will not comment on it. I just remind unmarried girls who are planning to live together that before you decide to live with a boy, you must first recognize the major pitfalls of living together, and then consider whether it is suitable to live with him. After all, Living together is serious business.

Sex

I don’t know how many people live together to solve sexual problems. I speculate that sex is not the first factor for a girl to decide to live together. But many girls still simply believe that sex is indeed a powerful weapon that can bind men. When a man first starts living together, he may be happy that he can relax at any time from now on. However, within 3 months, the sex life of living together will usually be more boring than when living apart, and then he will doubt that he is stupid to accept living together. idea.

Is this situation caused by frequent occurrences and reduced intensity? "Doing the same thing for a long time will make you bored." This is not all the reasons. More reasons come from various minor problems exposed in the other person's life. For example, he eats too loudly and looks like a pig when he drinks soup... Unknowingly, you will find that you, who were originally full of passion, have begun to degenerate into a "sexless person".

Money

When you first started dating, of course you justifiably let him pay for all the expenses, but when you decide to live together, the expenses necessary for living together It is definitely not something he, a young man who has just entered the society, can afford. One day he will open your wallet and ask you to pay for the crystal vase, and from then on he will start to list the details of the family bills. Of course, there are ways to solve this problem, such as adopting an intra-family AA system.

This seemingly fair method actually cannot solve the problem very well. You will still have arguments. For example: someone turns on the air conditioner all night in the summer or someone always talks on the phone for a long time. It won't be long before the equality of the AA system collapses. To completely solve this problem, living together must be done first. It is best to turn in a portion of the family fund every month according to the income ratio and consumption habits of each person. All other expenses, no matter how big or small, are accounted for one by one and settled at the end of the month. once.

Privacy

When you don’t live together and he receives a call from the opposite sex and you express curiosity, he may still think you are cute and cute. When you go to his single dormitory , looking through his little drawers would not be met with strong condemnation from him. But after you two live together, if you monitor his phone number and whereabouts, and use your mobile phone to check his location at any time, he may scold you for being a coward. Over time, both parties will be tortured by this suspicion until they collapse.

Living together is a very intimate act, but both parties still need to respect each other's right to privacy. There is always a corner in a person's heart that is unwilling to open to anyone. For example, you enjoy plucking yourself naked, and he likes to use a mirror to observe his innermost teeth for a long time.

Housework

How much housework does a family have? Wipe the table, do the laundry, feed the cat and clean up the poop, cook, wash the dishes, clean the toilet, organize the closet, take out the trash... When you live alone, you will find tidying up your room a fun way to pass the time. way, but when you live with him, you will find that you are a complete monster in his eyes.

Since you were a child, your mother has told you to roll up your socks into a ball and put them in the second compartment of the drawer, but he thinks you are a complete idiot for doing so; you have to wash the dishes as soon as you finish eating, but he He excused himself from watching the sports news and then finished reading the evening news, but he still didn't want to do it. "Life is made meaningless by women like you." But why doesn't he think it's meaningless for you to pack his underwear when you go to bed and have sex?

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