Four major weaknesses of men in love
No matter how strong a man is, he still has weaknesses, but they don’t want others to know their little secrets. What is a man's weakness? If you want to truly understand a man, you must first go deep into his heart. In fact, a man is just a child who will not grow up. Sometimes they care about things like women, and sometimes they want to be cared for like children. Only by knowing a man's weaknesses can we manage love better. What are these love skills?
Men have strong self-esteem, and an important reason why they are unwilling to take the initiative to reveal their feelings to their lovers is that they are afraid of being laughed at, especially by the woman they love most. Men's self-esteem is as fragile as eggs. They hope to show their best side to get the approval of the other party. If their weaknesses are accidentally seen by the closest woman, they will feel very ashamed. As men, their duty is to protect women. It would be really shameful if they were looked down upon by women.
Women really want to know about their man's past, and may even regard his ex-girlfriend and first love as their potential love rivals. Most men will not take the initiative to reveal their love history, not because they are still missing something, but because they do not want their previous relationship to affect their current life. Men all know that women are more sensitive. If he says something he shouldn't say, he may feel that he owes you something, which will make men a little afraid of mentioning old things.
Women like fairy tale love. Although such love does not exist at all, most women still like to live in such fantasies. Women like to control men, and they do so in a subtle way. For example, if she is in a bad mood but hasn't cried yet, a man must come over to comfort her. Women are the least likely to listen to the truth, because the truth often doesn't sound pleasant. Women's emotions always imply that men cannot tell the truth and must be coaxed with gentle words. After living for a long time, many men will no longer be interested in it, and there will be more and more conflicts.
Women want to hear the truest voice of men, but they cannot ask men to do this, because men are more rational. They usually have to consider many factors and do not want to cause too many problems. As a woman, you must first understand a man's difficulties, and you must frankly accept his thoughts. Everyone has a past, and the happiness of the future cannot be ruined just because of the haze of the past. Only when you relax can a man accept his imperfect self and you.