It is a very happy thing to enter the palace of marriage holding hands with the one you love and start a new life in life. For you, getting married is just an important watershed, and there is still a long way to go. The editor hereby gives some happy advice to newlyweds. I hope that with them as a foundation, your life can withstand the test of time.

1. Respect each other’s feelings

Marriage is different from love. In the first year of marriage, you may have to experience many major events that never happened when you were in love. Therefore, the most important thing during this period is that you must learn how to get along with each other and work hard on the basis of "being yourself" Respect each other. No matter what happens, you must communicate with him in a more rational way, so as to win the love and respect of the other person.

2. Concession to a certain extent

A harmonious and happy life needs to be created by both husband and wife. You must know that there is already someone in your life who can share everything with you. Therefore, neither you nor him can continue to live the same life as before. You both need to make certain concessions for each other. In marriage, this is called "tolerance."

3. Pay attention to the small details in life

There are many details in life that deserve attention, such as folding quilts after getting up, the order in which to dry clothes, eating habits, etc. Anything may lead to quarrels in the future. Therefore, if you pay attention to these little things in advance and find appropriate ways to solve them, you will avoid a lot of big troubles and your marriage will always be happy!

4. Create a family account

It is very necessary for newlyweds to establish a joint family account, because many couples now quarrel and divorce due to financial disputes. A joint family account can not only ensure reasonable income and expenses, but also enhance both parties' recognition of the concept of "community" and bring the couple closer together.

Loyalty and sharing make love stronger

1. Loyalty

There is no doubt that loyalty is the most important factor in getting along between husband and wife, and it is an essential principle for building a happy marriage. Just like you need to be loyal to your business partners, you need to be loyal to your spouse. You need to let the other person experience your unchanging support and encouragement, and keep the promises between you, not just for regular dates, but also for the "life and death contract, said to Zicheng" that you promised when you got married. oath.

2. Sharing

Sharing is also the theme of a happy marriage. Marriage belongs to two people and requires you to work together and share the burdens. Don’t think that just because you make more money, you can be a hands-off shopkeeper. Although you don’t need to divide the big and small things in the family very clearly, housework, work, finance, child care and other things can all be done together. You can do less, but never do less. You don’t have to do it. Only by learning to share can we realize the true meaning of marriage and understand each other.

3. Frankness

Learn to be honest with each other and don't keep everything bottled up in your mind. You need to discuss your feelings with your partner straightforwardly and tell them your true feelings. And you also need to encourage the other person to express their inner thoughts, be honest with each other, and communicating with each other can reduce the friction between you and deepen your understanding of your partner's needs. If you are silent to each other, or only one of you is chattering, it will only reduce mutual understanding and may lead to distance between each other.

4. Positive

Life needs to be positive, and marriage also needs you to be more positive. In daily communication and behavior, we must have a positive and optimistic mentality and attitude, and each other can gain ability and happiness from these proven information. On the contrary, if one party often behaves depressed, and your partner does not express anything when telling you a happy thing, or even behaves indifferently, this will dampen the enthusiasm of the other party and greatly reduce the positive interaction between the couple.

5. Love House and Crow

Learn to love each other. After getting married, it is not just a matter of two people. You must learn to accept and respect each other's relatives and friends. This is another manifestation of a happy marriage. And don’t forget to invite the other person’s relatives and friends if there are events. This is a sign of your love for the house and the bird, which will make the other person love you even more. Mutual sincerity, trust and care are also the secret recipe to protect the longer and mellower the love between you, and can keep your marriage sweet forever.