In this world, divorce is no longer a big deal. If we can get along, we can live together; if we can't, we can separate. More and more modern people are obsessed with individuality, and they are not letting go of their opinions. Each one of them breaks up because of anger or emotional discord. Don't you know that after the period of chaos, men and women still remain unwilling to accept each other in their hearts. Divorce is really a heartache. It's not just women who feel sad. Don't men feel crazy?

Crazy 1·The outbreak of the silent period

When two people finally break up from a quarrel, at first, the man can still face everything with arrogance. However, as the facts of divorce unfold, men begin to enter a period of silence. This is not only thinking about this love life, but also coming from confusion. Many men who have just walked out of the court will enter a period of silence, using silence to resist the excitement of the brain. After all, the unhappiness of this marriage still leaves traces in the heart. No matter how strong a man you are, you must use silence to continue to relieve it.

Crazy II: The outbreak of the indulgence period

When a man slowly wakes up from silence, he begins to turn to indulgence. The failure of marriage makes men feel a fire in their stomachs. This is not just the woman's betrayal or his own lack of love. The shadow after divorce still exists. Men's arrogance becomes crazy and hysterical in the face of failure. Therefore, drinking and having fun became the reasons for men to indulge. I have seen many men who have just been divorced start looking for women crazily and start to show off their achievements. He wishes he could lead the new woman to show off in front of his ex-wife. The man's self-esteem is both lonely and vented in the madness. At this time, the woman became the main target of his revenge. It could also be said that she was just the one to have sex with, right? Conquest has become the main color of this stage!

Crazy 3·The outbreak of losing a sense of security

It is said that women are insecure animals, and divorced men are even worse than women. The failure of a marriage makes men start to re-examine women, not only in terms of money, but also in terms of women. Examine the moral character. Men long for the warmth of home, but are also afraid that women will not bring them a sense of security. Therefore, the question of whether to get married or not is often entangled in the hearts of divorced men. We will soon see two extremes of this. One is to get married quickly to compensate for the loss of this sense of security. The second is that they don’t dare to get married again. They are afraid of getting divorced again, which will not only cost them money but also waste their emotions. What’s wrong with simply being single? The loss of sense of security really puts men in a dilemma!

Crazy Four·The Explosion of Self-denial

In this era, men are actually more afraid of divorce than women. For most men, marriage is a home. Having this home gives them a certain sense of security. Therefore, men who have a home can safely start their careers. As the saying goes: start a family first and then start a career. Although the marriage is gradually becoming more stable, the man often feels bored. At this time, the temptation outside marriage gradually increases, but most men still abide by the rules. That is: marriage is responsibility and morality, but love can only be a heartbeat. Flowers at home and flowers outside the home are what a man really wants. Therefore, it can be said that as long as there is no fire in the backyard, men will not divorce easily! Divorce means the loss of money, and divorce means fighting again. From this point of view, most divorces are initiated by women first. When the fact of real divorce is faced, men begin to explode in self-denial. This is the reason why a divorced man no longer dares to choose a gorgeous woman as his wife, because he deeply knows that it is difficult to deal with a woman who is too capable, and he does not want to waste that energy anymore, it is too tiring!

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