For whom is the unique innocence of women reserved? The famous Hong Kong female singer and "single-eyelid beauty" Lin Yilian told us the answer in a classic old song many years ago. At this time, her deep and moving singing voice lingered in my ears: "The unique innocence and gentleness of women Your talent should be reserved for the person who truly loves you. No matter how painful or difficult the future may be, he will accompany you to complete it..."

In fact, her answer is completely reasonable. If you think about it carefully, the vast number of people In the sea, there may be many men who admire you, and there may be more than one man who likes you, but there is only one man who truly loves you, no matter what severe test he goes through, he will never leave you. This is unique to us women. Shouldn't your talent for innocence and gentleness be reserved for this man who truly loves you? Isn’t it worth leaving it to this man who truly cares for you and takes care of you?

What is sad is that in real life, such a natural and reasonable thing is easier said than done for some women. Among them, they have experienced more or less emotional ups and downs in the past, and some have even suffered heavy blows when their love fell from the clouds into the abyss. Perhaps the deeper the love, the more intense the hatred. Years pass by like a fleeting time, but They can't dilute that unforgettable memory, they can't forget the unfaithful person who hurt her, and they can't erase the scar lurking deep in their hearts!

So every time in the dead of night, she tossed and turned, unable to sleep, "waking up and counting the scars" over and over again. For this reason, she did not hesitate to tear open old wounds that could have been healed, even if she felt a dull pain because of it, even if My mood hit a painful low. When you asked her why she wanted to torture both herself and the person who truly loved her, she looked helpless and said to you confidently: I don't want to go on like this, but emotional matters are so uncontrollable. , as long as you have truly loved, you cannot erase the traces of love!

But I want to say to her: It is true that as long as you have given true feelings at that time, those unforgettable memories cannot be completely erased from the depths of your heart, but you have to admit it. What's more, the page of the past has already been turned. Whether it is full of sweetness or sadness, it is destined to become history farther and farther away from you. What you have to face is not yesterday that has become history, but Today is just around the corner and tomorrow is full of expectations. If we always indulge in the illusory memories of yesterday, wouldn’t we be trapping ourselves and looking for trouble? If we always carry these heavy psychological baggage forward, how can we, who are physically and mentally exhausted, appreciate the feeling of happiness? How can we fully enjoy the warmth and sweetness of loving and being loved?

If you really can't forget the emotional experience that was very hurt in the past, then please treasure it in the deepest part of your memory. If one day you have to open that long-lasting memory, , I hope you can treat it kindly with a calm and relieved mood rather than a grudge, and regard it as your own psychological journey towards maturity. Now that you have emerged from the miserable wind and rain and have a piece of blue sky, I believe that you will cherish your own happiness and the only person in the world who truly loves you!

"A woman's unique talent for innocence and gentleness should be reserved for those who truly love you." The familiar and melodious melody sounded in my ears again. At this moment, I was immersed in happiness. Have you heard this beautiful melody like me?

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