Today, when I was chatting with a netizen online, she asked me a question, saying that her child might be in early love. She said she was panicked. do not know what to do. Her son is in the third grade of junior high school. I said it was nothing, it was normal. Here are some of my views on this issue: 1. Face it with a normal mind

There is nothing to make a fuss about when children fall in love early. We ourselves have also come from this period. Who has not had beautiful yearnings in his heart? Have you never had your first love? It’s just that your first love is very hidden! But to be honest, first love should be the most beautiful and the memory of our life.

2. Don’t treat children who fall in love roughly

Children develop early and late. Children who develop early may fall in love early when they are in junior high school. This is also very normal physiological development. We as parents should be mentally prepared for this as early as possible. Don't feel embarrassed or embarrassed as soon as you find out your child is in early love. So they interfere with the child or threaten the child with force.

3. Explain the consequences clearly to the children

Children at this period cannot think too much about things. They just do things based on curiosity, driven by their biological growth. But people in this period cannot extricate themselves. Therefore, parents should explain clearly to their children the consequences of doing so, but never threaten them. In that way, you can only make your child feel that he cannot get warmth from you, and he will have no choice but to find his love partner. In the end it was counterproductive.

4. Parents should be mentally prepared in advance

In fact, everyone’s children have to grow up. Therefore, we as parents must be mentally prepared in advance. After your children enter junior high school, you should discuss this issue with your children from time to time. It's okay to ask them if there is anyone involved in the school. Let the child feel psychologically that you don't care about this matter very much. At the same time, if you say it more often, he may become less curious.

5. Don’t be too serious

Parents should not act as if they are facing a formidable enemy when discussing this matter with their children. Say it easily, or even make a joke with your child and tell him something similar when he is happy. In this way, the child will not be too nervous and will be very cooperative with you.

In fact, each of us parents hopes that our children can grow up healthily. Then let’s adjust our own mentality first!

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