Dating is a common occurrence for men and women who are in love, so what should you pay attention to when dating?

Have you messed up the most important date you've ever had because of nerves or accidents? Have you ignored the "hints" the other person has given you because of your "incomprehensible feelings"? Have you missed your true love because of some inexplicable reserve?

Dating is a romantic way to fall in love, and love often continues to grow through dating. Because you just started to get to know each other and you don’t know the other person very well, dating is the best way to communicate for you!

There are many, many more dating “rules” you don’t know, so don’t worry! From now on, the poster editor will tell you everything you need to know about dating! I will tell you all the things you must remember and avoid, so that you can become a perfect "dating expert"!

"The Invincible Guide to Remember on Dating"

1. Remember to be yourself. He asks you out because he likes you for who you are. There’s no need to act pretentious just for a date

2. Remember to put your best foot forward, but don’t overdo it. Wearing heavy makeup is very scary for young people, so there is nothing wrong with wearing it naturally without showing any traces. Think about Gigi Leung and Song Hye Kyo, are they as fresh and beautiful as the girl next door? Remember to ask him lots of questions during the conversation, keep the conversation flowing, and listen carefully when he answers.

3. If it is your first date, remember to take the initiative to propose an AA arrangement, unless of course he insists on being a customer. Doing this shows that you are polite and are not dating him just to get some free money.

4. Remember to arrange in advance for a friend to call you midway. This is a good idea because it makes you look popular and gives you a way to get out if the date doesn't go well. Just say that you have something urgent at home and you have to go back!

5. Remember to maintain eye contact with the other person, implicitly ruffle your hair and/or move closer to him during the conversation. These body language signals are "I'm interested" and they also let him know that you like him. Excellent way.

"Dating Tips"

1. Don’t talk about yourself all night long. The conversation was a two-way street, allowing him to chime in every now and then.

2. Avoid going to places that are too noisy, too quiet, or where your friends will go in groups. Too noisy and you won't be able to have a good chat; too quiet and you'll get nervous when talking; and if your friends are around, they'll make fun of you.

3. Avoid wearing clothes that make you feel uncomfortable. You don’t want to spend the entire evening worrying about your bra strap or ill-fitting shoes. It's best to wear clothes you like and shoes that fit well.

4. Avoid texting all night long.

5. Don’t spend the entire evening talking about your ex-boyfriend.

6. Don’t put pressure on yourself to do things you don’t want to do.

7. Don’t text him right after the date. Tell him you had a great time tonight. When will you date again? You must know how to "play hard to get". But don't overdo it with "play hard to get" if you like him and want to see him again.

8. Don’t be afraid to go out on a date, and then send a text message to invite him out later. Boys don't know how to "read minds". If you like him, you have to let him know.

A great way to ease awkward dating situations

1. Brothers and sisters

What should we talk about when we meet for the first time? It's a bit inappropriate to talk about her parents, as it may cause her discomfort if her parents separate or divorce. A common topic is talking about brothers and sisters. Talking about brothers and sisters can deepen understanding and liven up the atmosphere. And if you want to know about her family, it shows that you like her, which will make it easier to win her trust.

2. Childhood ideals

Let’s talk about your childhood ideals. This is a very interesting topic that is both relaxing and enjoyable, and can also enhance feelings. However, don't hold on to the conversation. Let her speak. The happier she talks, the more fun you'll have.

3. Places of Interest

What places of interest have you visited before? She was happy to answer this question and was not defensive. In order to get her to start talking, ask her to introduce you again. As long as you are a loyal listener, she will quickly develop a good impression of you. At this time, you can be more proactive and ask her where else she wants to go. If she says she has always wanted to go to such and such a place, your chance to show off will come.

Be brave and say, "I've always wanted to go there too. Let's go together someday and let's make our dream come true together?" She will gladly accept your invitation. In fact, after talking about this, you have learned a lot about her knowledge background, interests and hobbies.

4. Favorite food

If you're on a date at a restaurant or bar, it's an enjoyable topic to talk about your favorite foods. By talking about food, you can not only understand her tastes and find common ground, but you no longer have to worry about running out of topics.

If she has a special skill, you should take the opportunity to praise her first, and then ask her, "My mouth is watering. Let me enjoy it one day." Even if she knows that you are complimenting her, she will still take advantage of it. If you also have a hand, don’t forget to invite her to taste your craft.

5. Hobbies

Like collecting stamps, singing, or dancing? Like sports? What kind of music do you like to listen to? You must ask these questions, otherwise how would you know her interests and hobbies. And she also hopes to show herself that she can achieve multiple things with one stone, so why not do it.

6. Future plans

Can you talk about your life in college? Still want to continue school? She may be very interested in these topics and talk a lot about her student life, interesting things, various honors she has achieved, etc. However, she may also react coldly, just say that her current job major is inappropriate, and then change the subject. However, no matter what happens, it gives you a good opportunity to compliment her.

7. Work situation

If you have been working for a while after graduating from college, talking about work is a good topic. However, you have to control the initiative and don't let her keep nagging about trivial things in life. The more she talks, the more unhappy she becomes, and the more you listen, the more impatient you become.

However, when most people talk about their work, even if it is boring, they will talk about it in a very grand way. It doesn't matter, you can at least know whether she will be a workaholic or a good housewife in the future.

8. Friends around you

Talk to her about her friends. Maybe you don't know them, but that doesn't matter. She will happily talk about her friends, the details of their interactions, when and where they met. Maybe you are not interested at all, but don't be impatient. This is a great opportunity for you to get to know her. Do you want to continue developing a relationship with her? Start by getting to know her friends.

9. Don’t mention her old love

On a first date, don't ask her about her past loves. If she doesn't bring up such a topic, you can't speak rashly. She may still be in love with him, or she may still be in the pain of her last relationship. When you meet her for the first time, don't think that you can win her favor by talking about her past lovers, enlightening her, and comforting her. This will often backfire.

If you want to please her, don't let her reminisce about the past and talk about happy things. Remember, your goal is to win her, not to wipe her tears.