In fact, men and women have never been equal throughout the ages, and this inequality is also reflected in adultery. Men cheat for sex, women cheat for love; men cheat for money and effort, women cheat for money and effort; men cheat for dozens of glorious seconds each time, but women can cheat for an entire night with each other in their arms... ...So, when it comes to having an affair, a man is doomed and willing to be reduced to the weak side. He loses his wife and loses his troops, gains face but loses his face, and finally throws away both his face and his face. Alas, it’s Xiao Qiang’s fault. Displaced! Looking at ancient times and modern times, there are really too many such men. They come one after another, and the waves behind push the waves in front. The waves in front of them die on the beach, and the waves behind them continue to beat. This is the bad nature of men, and it is even the fate of men. They may seem to the outside world to be very wise, smart and proud men, but in fact they are not. In my opinion, at most they have mastered eight or seven of them, and one of them still falls on women, and in the end they become ruined and ignorant!

In fact, I am very reluctant to tell you the fact that there are only three types of men in this world who will not cheat: one is those who want to steal but are unable to steal (including body, age and Peripheral environment, etc.); the other is a timid man, who wants to steal but dare not steal; and the other is a truly smart man. Of the above three situations, the first two naturally do not need to be analyzed in depth. I still have something to say about the last one.

In response to the statement that truly smart men will not have affairs, we can easily deduce that men who have affairs are not really smart. That is to say, men who have affairs are fake smart and really stupid! Now I might as well list the stupidities of men who have affairs.

One of the follies: die to save face, live to suffer.

I have a friend who told me frankly: "I look for women outside for nothing, just to save face. Why can other men look for three or five women outside, but I don't?" Can’t find one? A man lives for a hundred years, and if he doesn’t play with a few more women, wouldn’t he feel sorry for the outfit his parents gave him? What my friend said was a bit funny. The more I felt that what he said was true, the more I wanted to laugh. Man, you always have face when you open your eyes or close your eyes, but you have suffered a lifetime of punishment just for the sake of face. Even on the issue of cheating between men and women, they still compete for face, which cannot but be said to be a great sadness. As for how sad it is, you might as well let me tell you about this friend's current situation.

This friend got divorced a year ago. Out of his own fault and to show the man's generosity, he left all his belongings to his wife and went out. Less than three months later, the woman who was away from home decided to go back to her previous boyfriend on the grounds that their personalities were not compatible. You broke up with him. When they broke up, she didn't mention the 50,000 yuan she had borrowed from him. Then her phone number was not in the service area, and her phone was shut down. In the end, no one could be found. What's even more serious is that he was diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease not long ago. He cannot return home and cannot be treated when he is sick.

Ignorance 2: Being accustomed to one's temper will lead to a hard life and a loss of money.

Of course, more men come out to have affairs just for sex. Day after day, facing the same woman all day long, just like holding the left hand with the right hand, without feeling at all, is called aesthetic fatigue. So men with a little bit of conditions and courage thought about going outside for a change of taste. The taste changed, but their tempers got used to it. They became more and more courageous. They changed from underground to upright, and even thought of ways to do it. Make the illegal legal.

It’s easy to make it legal, then you have to take out all the notes you have saved over the years, and nine times out of ten it will not be enough, so go ahead and borrow it. Take the hard work for the rest of your life. Of course, there are also people who don’t want to legalize it, so be prepared to live a hard life. You dare not leave your phone all day long, and your nerves get tense as soon as the phone rings at home. You have to work overtime constantly on weekends. After working overtime, you still have to work. You have to make up lies to appease your family, and then in a few days you have to make up more lies to cover up that lie. In the end, you don’t even dare to say a word, because you are really afraid that you will be exposed as soon as you speak. All those lies from the past have been forgotten... Do you think, if things continue like this, will this still be the way people live?

Ignorance No. 3: For sex, to steal love, and tossing around in circles.

It is always said that men are rational animals, but it is impossible for men who have an affair to be rational. The reason why I say this is because he was irrational from the very beginning of the affair. Just think about it, most men have affairs for sex, right? But in today's society, sex is such a simple thing. Why do we have to go in circles and bypass "love" to play with "sex"? Isn't this just irrational nonsense?

Of course, when I say this, I do not mean to encourage men to be ruthless sex seekers, nor do I mean to ask them to abandon their marriage and family and become smelly flies everywhere. The reason why I say this is , based on the fact that men value sex, we took a step back and conducted some necessary rational analysis on them. The result is that they are not rational at all. Perhaps, this is the excitement they are pursuing, but irrational stimulation is such a huge self-deprecation! In fact, when it comes to playing with emotions, how many men can play better than women?

Foolishness 4: Not seeking exclusivity, but seeking sharing?

Actually, I have always wanted to ask men who have affairs: When it comes to women, do you not seek exclusivity, but do you seek sharing? Obviously, your affair has answered this question with actions. You are abandoning exclusivity and pursuing sharing. Even though you may have a hundred reluctances from the bottom of your heart, you still do it after all.

Obviously, the woman in your family is your exclusive one (except for a few women who have cheated on you first), but you want to keep this exclusivity and then look for another one outside. Enjoy, but it often backfires. The exclusive enjoyment you find outside will most likely be shared with others. At the same time, you will also let her follow you because of your indifference and harm to the person at home. Betraying you will ultimately lead to the fact that the person in the family is no longer yours. It truly goes as the old saying goes, a man with a skinny head and a rotten egg loses both ends!

Of course, I say this based on the logic of some men’s disrespect for women, because perhaps such language can touch the hearts of some men better.

Ignorance No. 5: Short-sightedness, gray hair, empty sorrow!

I remember a few years ago, I once rented a place where a seventy-year-old man lived downstairs. Every day I could watch him picking up some rotten vegetable leaves from the market in the evening, and I could smell a foul smell far away from his house. Later, I learned from the landlord that this old man was an old tenant here and had lived here for more than ten years. He was originally the leader of a state-owned enterprise. He was fired from his job early because of bad relationships with three women. His wife and three children still refused to recognize him. The three women also left their jobs one after another. Without him, he ended up in the lonely old age he is today, which is pitiful and even more pathetic!

The purpose of telling you such a story is to tell some men that maybe you are powerful and prosperous now, maybe you have enough masculine charm, strength and wealth now, but it can really accompany you wherever you go. The only ones who will end this life are your mother and children. If you break the hearts of your wife and family just for your own selfish desires, the old man in the above story may be your role model in the near future. A truly outstanding man can completely see this step, and has complete self-control to prevent himself from taking this step. Otherwise, it is foolishness, unless you are really sure that the woman you are having an affair with is someone who can really be with you. Hold hands until old age, but obviously this probability is really too small, not even 1%.

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