Girls fear that it will be difficult to get married at old age, which has been a long-standing concern, but now boys are also beginning to hope for "stability at the rear", and they have also chosen short and quick marriages. After marriage, although the two of them were able to take charge of themselves in the workplace, conflicts in family life gradually emerged.

1. Lack of tolerance

The reason why only children born in the 1980s have become a group with a high risk of divorce. Many people in this group are self-centered and have a weak sense of social and family responsibilities. This is directly related to the fact that their parents have been overly spoiled since childhood, helping their children make decisions in everything, and raising their children to lack tolerance and tolerance. This has led to the stability of their marriages. decline. At the same time, with the development of the times, this generation has higher requirements for the quality of marital relationships. Their dissatisfaction with ordinary life makes them unwilling to make do, and the phenomenon of "marriage death" caused by trivial matters in life is increasing.

2. Economic dependence

Girls’ fear of being difficult to marry at old age has been a long-standing worry, but now boys are also beginning to hope for “stable stability at the rear”, and have also chosen short and quick ways to get married. . After marriage, although the two of them were able to act independently in the workplace, conflicts in family life gradually emerged. I have been used to spending money lavishly since I was a child. I spend half of a month's salary without mentioning it. I also often buy new mobile phones, and each of them needs one. MP3 players, digital cameras, and even computers require one for each person, so I can accept support from my parents with peace of mind. Until the conflict between the two families arose and got out of hand.

3. Housework imbecility

It is quite representative among the post-80s generation. Economic independence and "housework imbecility" are the "weaknesses" in the married life of the post-80s generation, coupled with the lack of tolerance and understanding. Personality is often the trigger for divorce. A survey shows that among married "one-child" families, 30% hire part-time workers to do housework, 20% have their parents clean their rooms regularly, and 80% of families live in the homes of both parents for a long time. 30% of couples take their dirty clothes to be washed at their parents' home.

4. Hasty flash marriage

After the post-80s generation reached the right age, "flash marriage" also became a buzzword. Many people born in the 1980s who "flashed out" will almost say in the end: I didn't know the other person before, and I didn't expect that he or she had so many problems. The premise that led to the "flashaway" was the seemingly fashionable "flash marriage." Lack of in-depth understanding before marriage, hasty marriage without careful consideration, unstable emotional foundation after marriage, and the fast pace of urban life, people are prone to impetuousness, lack of self-adjustment and mutual understanding after conflicts, and lack of social responsibility, it is easy to divorce hastily.

5. Simple and Convenient

It is worth noting that most of the parties to divorce cases born in the 1980s do not have issues with property division and child support, which makes them have much fewer worries when divorcing. "Divorce is too easy now. Let's go have a meal to celebrate." Xiang Nan and Yang Xiaoyun in the hit TV series "Struggle" are a pair of "married people" (referring to college students who get married as soon as they graduate). They have been stumbling and have not yet gotten married. A year later, they got their marriage certificate and divorced again. It can be seen that divorce also appears to be much "simple" and "convenient".

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