This is an era of "leftover women". There are more and more girls around me who can't find boyfriends. Among them is a very outstanding girl, and I have witnessed her step by step from "Sheng Fighter", "Bi Leftover", "Fighting Leftover Buddha", to today's "Qi Tian Da Sheng". Through these various titles from netizens, what I see is a marriage-age woman’s exploration of the future, inner struggle and insistence on independent personality. To tell the truth, she lives so real and unpretentious, and the sky is always blue. I was very moved by her, by her persistence that she would rather lack than to waste, and that when everyone else is drunk, I am the only one who is awake.

The "leftover women" and the "saints" are the closest clans. They all have a kind of excellent quality that ordinary girls cannot have. Frankly speaking, if I were a single man, I would definitely choose a "leftover woman" of the "Qi Tian Da Sheng" level. As for the reasons, I will list five reasons here for everyone to see:

Reason 1: They are independent and strong.

The little bird is flattering, although to a certain extent it is a compliment to women. But if you live at home for a long time, obviously this is not a word that men like. Looking at the failure of many modern marriages, a considerable part of them are actually caused by women's lack of independence and strength. In their married life, they exist for this man from beginning to end. They dress up, study, get married and have children for this man, but in the end they often lose even the most basic self. The leftover women are much better in this regard. Living alone for a long time has enabled them to develop a habitual independent attitude towards life and a strong enthusiasm for life. They will not feel at a loss about many things because their husbands are not at home. They are often used to arranging everything in a plan the day before. When encountering sudden changes, they have extraordinary adaptability and inner strength. , they will not abandon or give up easily when encountering anything.

Reason 2: They are rich and restrained.

Compared with those women who got married early, leftover women have richer life experiences. They are used to rationally analyzing and judging things without the help of men. They rarely put happiness and anger into question. on the face. She can precipitate joy and happiness, and she knows how to resolve worries and worries...and the ease with which all these can be released comes from the richness and restraint in them, and from the fragrance of plum blossoms after the bone-chilling cold.

Reason 3: They are real and reliable.

Modern women are living increasingly unreal and unreliable lives. You walk awkwardly, you startle when you talk, your hair is short one day and long the next day, your husband screams like a baby when you have a whim, and treats you like a cow or a horse before you even have a muscle in place. Like the leftover women, although they are no longer youthful and radiant, their attitude towards love must be true, plain and reliable. When they choose a man, they will work hard to integrate themselves into his life quickly, and are willing to find the truth and calmness of marriage from the most basic trivialities of life. With them, men don't have to worry about it all day long and live a topsy-turvy life. , firewood, rice, oil and salt are always available at home, and this is the serious life that men want to live.

Reason 4: They are cherishing and considerate.

Although a large proportion of leftover women have been deeply emotionally hurt, they may seal their emotional world tightly, but if a man really captures her If her heart breaks through her bottom line of "not willing to give easily" from the root, then there will be a steady stream of benefits and happiness. They can recite the size of men's clothes, favorite dishes and hobbies in detail, and they are always ready for you in the wardrobe, refrigerator and room... What's even more valuable is that they are so precious and considerate. It does not require any guidance or refinement by a man, and is much more practical and trouble-free than a young woman who struggles to educate her after marriage.

Reason 5: They are mellow and long-lasting.

Nowadays, many women are young when they succeed and when they fail. In other words, when they are young and beautiful, they can quickly and easily rely on their youth and beauty to achieve a leap in life, or get the happiness and wealth they want; but time will be merciless, and in a few years, when they When youth is gone, its advantages are no longer there, and the charm and attraction of the body will disappear without a trace. However, at that time, it is obviously too late to cherish the spring and regret not dressing yourself up spiritually and improving your personal qualities. The leftover women are different. They are fans of the authorities but clear to the outside world. In the feast of perspectives about youth and love, the leftover women may act more like bystanders or reflectors, so they understand better. What should women hold on to most, what can give women long-term protection, so they choose inner elegance and spiritual strength. This kind of elegance and strength is like a jar of old wine, which lasts for a long time. The wind is distant.

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