Finding a man is a woman’s job
Hong Kong newspapers said: In 2009, the ratio of unmarried Hong Kong women of the right age to unmarried Hong Kong men of the right age was 100:70, and Hong Kong women have a tendency to be unsaleable. The opposition between Hong Kong women and Hong Kong men in terms of marriage and love attitudes is becoming more and more obvious. Hong Kong women are not willing to find Hong Kong men. The biggest reason is that they feel that Hong Kong men are not motivated. Hong Kong men are also reluctant to find Hong Kong girls because they dislike their vanity and dependence. Under this trend, Hong Kong women and Hong Kong men have turned their attention to the mainland. The mainland girls and mainland boys who were once disdainful to them are now extremely popular.
To this end, "Qiang Qiang Threesome" specially made a program. The invited guests were all men. When talking about Hong Kong women, they frowned: very short, not beautiful, and... Especially vain... and what troubles them the most is the common dependence of Hong Kong women. A guest said: Hong Kong girls use all the money they earn to buy LV bags. If a man treats a dinner party without a car, they will not go there. They would rather put their car in the garage than drive it. Moreover, it is very important for them for a man to support the family. It is a matter of course for women, and they will not share the responsibility of supporting the family with men. Girls from the Mainland are different. Some Hong Kong men go to work in the Mainland, and their female colleagues occasionally treat them to meals and do not refuse to pay the bills on the AA system. This is greatly appreciated by Hong Kong men.
Society has changed, and women who can make money and are willing to support their families are beginning to be favored by men. At least Hong Kong men believe that mainland girls have no attachment. But I saw a report two days ago, saying that the record for the shortest "flash marriage" among college students after graduation was broken again. More than 300 minutes of long-distance phone calls resolved the marriage issue. When asked why, the old saying is: it is difficult to find a job. , it is better to find someone to marry directly.
It is difficult to find a job, so just find someone to marry. Isn’t this a kind of attachment? Is the attachment of mainland girls really smaller than that of Hong Kong girls? To put it bluntly, we have never been completely I have never given up the idea of changing my life by getting married. After the founding of the People's Republic of China, equality between men and women was called for, and women held half of the sky. The images of good girls at that time were generally very thick, with sunburnt faces, and the background was endless wheat fields. That kind of masculine image of women is gone forever. With the reform and opening up, especially in recent years, it is common to find rich people and work as mistresses for money. It is even more difficult to marry someone with financial strength and live a stable life. This is what many girls think. But does this prove that our attachment is on the rise? The famous host Wen Dao said: A girl looking for a man like a job does not show how strong her attachment is. This is a way to solve the problem.
Hong Kong girls have a traditional attachment mentality. They believe that men should take care of the outside world and women should take care of the house. Therefore, even if they have a good income, they are not willing to supplement the family income. For mainland girls who regard finding a boyfriend to get married as finding a job, the purpose of marriage is to quickly complete a change in life. This may be a good opportunity to realize other ideals in life through marriage.
So you see, it is not a shameful thing to change your destiny by getting married. Every woman should learn to change something by getting married. Regardless of financial conditions, living conditions, mentality and way of life, in short, marriage can solve some problems that cannot be solved when you are unmarried.
To a certain extent, you have to look for a boyfriend with the mentality of looking for a job. Since it's hard to find a job, you should first find a boyfriend and get married. When jobs become easier to find, you can then go out and find a good job, or you can simply pool money with your boyfriend to start a business. Most mainland girls have plans for life. Of course, being a good wife and mother after getting married is also an option, but that is not to avoid leisure and participate in social work. There are many housewives who were excellent workers. For them, being a housewife is also a job.
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